I've always heard that squirting is made out of the liquid that comprises urine, before the contaminants enter it. Is that true? I honestly just don't know that much about it.
Originally Posted by Ginger Doll
Now I'm no doctor, but I did sleep in a hotel last night so...
From everything I have read, the fluid is more like a prostate fluid. There is something referred to as the Skene's glands around the vagina... They say that every woman has the same fluid and the difference is, if a woman does not "let go" then the fluid sits and will expel when she goes pee afterwards (provided she has orgasmed) Pee is pee and to your point, all fluids in our body have the same root of the water we take in. So there is some truth to that statement but the bladder seems to be only pee and this fluid seems to come from different, multiple glands.
Most women I have talked to, admit to feeling like that they have to pee at time of the "O" but are holding it back for obvious reasons. It was not until my S.O. inadvertently couldn't hold back during a standing session in the bathroom and we were left with a little puddle and my legs to be cleaned off. She left fairly quickly (we were sneaking while kids were playing) and after she left, I noticed that there was no color and no smell... She apologized later for peeing on me and that's when I told her I wasn't sure if it was pee or if she just proved to me that squirting was real.
Because of our comfort level with each other, we experimented and she learned to relax. A couple of graphic points we learned was that even if she lets go during reg penetration, there is no "squirting", we just get extra wet. Ironically, she likes anal on occasion and That created the Mother of all squirts!!! I mean it was a fountain! On the second or 3rd time of that, it literally traveled past both our heads and she did it during her 2nd, 3rd and 4th O in less than 30 minutes.. She was Spent...
Today, we have special blankets that are pulled out and there are times that she just wants to squirt and I am happy to oblige. We have it down to an art and it can take little time. She loves it so much that even though we don't swing per se, we are pretty open with select friends and she has allowed/asked me to do it for a few of her friends (digitally only)... 2 of the 3 were able to even in what was a somewhat awkward setting. The 3rd just never could.
To me, the biggest part is someone that is comfortable with their partner enough that they are not afraid of rejection if pee were to come out... as I stated before there was a time that my SO did it and it was mostly or enough pee that I realized at that moment there rest of the times were 100% squirt. The other part is to make sure that your partner knows where to stimulate specifically. The "G" spot is referred to and that maybe the spot I find, but what I can tell you is that the spot I find in each woman, reacts in much the same way... It swells and hardens and if I stay that path, she will O... If she ejaculates, that is simply because she is relaxing and letting go. Now the direct G spot is not the only way as I explained that anally have been a couple of her better times... However, using one or two fingers direct is often the easiest, quickest way to the finish line.
My SO and the 2 friends with success say that it multiplies their O to a point they cant explain. I can simply attest that my SO never glows, nor is more flush than after she squirts.
You can be sad and negative about it 
You can embrace your lover and enjoy the ride ! ! !
