Bodyrubs... Really?

Vulgar1999's Avatar
Being fairly new to the hobby I see a lot of bodyrubs offered by the ladies, although I'm certain it's just a front for a good amount of people. How do I know if a provider offers more than just a massage? Especially if I can't find a review on them?
Not a bodyrub guy myself. But, if you're new to the hobby, why not stick with the gals who are reviewed? Get premium access, read reviews, and it's pretty much a sure thing. I suspect some veterans can give you some tips if you absolutely must explore for yourself, but if she's not reviewed, you're taking your chances, especially as you lack the experience to have developed a good feel for who offers extras.
Sir Lancehernot's Avatar
What he said.

For starters, if I want a massage, I look in the massage section. If want some "stress relief," I look at the body rub ads.

If you're looking at ads where you can't see the lady's face, or she's showing more than she'd show while walking through the mall, or she's wearing lingerie instead of scrubs, chances are she'll provide at least a happy ending. Backpage ads typically have links to other ads posted by the user, and some ladies share an account to post ads from. So if you can't find a review on he lady in question, you might be able to find a review on someone she works with -- though levels and quality of service often vary from lady to lady even at the same location.

Googling the phone number might provide some insight.

My rule of thumb about BP ads for ladies I can't find reviews for: If she's been advertising on BP for at least a couple of months under the same name, chances are she's legit. But then I'd be wondering why there weren't any reviews

If a woman says in her ad that she's not an escort and doesn't do that so don't even ask, a condom almost certainly won't be necessary for your visit. It also doesn't preclude other activities -- but don't assume anything.

Finally, there's quite a bit of difference between a massage with a happy ending and a sensuous non-FS session. Unfortunately, while most bodyrub girls are at least minimally adept at fluid extraction, very few have the interest or skill in making your experience an erotic one.

Happy hunting!
Its fun,never know what you going to get,like a box of chocolates,..
LazurusLong's Avatar
I must protest the oft repeated mantra to "stick with reviewed" ladies on here.

In years and years of seeing body rub and massage girls who are not anywhere NEAR this site or any other review site, still up or long gone, the drama level between them and this place is like night and day.

I've never had a body rub girl blow up my cell phone with texts or crash my mail server. I've never worried about a body rub girl outing me to ANYONE but I can name more than one "verified provider" who collected enough information on me that she could have done some harm in the past.

The vast majority of body rub gals want to make cash but many don't want to get pressured into fucking every hard dick that walks in the door so by posting ads in that section, they can upgrade the session if they so choose and the guy also wants more.

Many guys rave about blowjobs and how they can't stand CBJ instead of BBBJ.

There is a pretty good segment of guys in the hobby that really enjoy being completely pampered by the girl without having to do anything except lay there and get relaxed and "taken care of".

I have this one Latina gal who offers a killer special for a nice rub and tug. Forty dollars. That's it. Smoking hot too.

I've been in an "underground" body rub group for several years and we share details without exposing the licensed girls to a review board and we also share which body rub girls are worth seeing or worth investing more than 1-2 visits with to get better levels IF the guy is clean.

Ever notice in porn that most endings are done with the girls hands?

There is an art to the perfect handjob and most escorts have never even looked at how to do one properly. They don't understand that almost every guy out there has played with his own dick more than he has had a woman do so and I can name some girls in the studio world such as Jordan of Studio 1 or Mercedes of VIP Sweet who were amazing with simply the under rated handjob.
Vulgar1999's Avatar
Lazurus, you have described me completely! I have tried multiple girls from backpage that will give you a crappy massage with a horrible tug job. It got so bad that I ventured to two different Asian spa's where I did receive adequate massages with some happy endings, yet I really wasn't satisfied because I tend not to be attracted to the Asian ladies and I hate to deal with the language barrier. If I could find a blond or a brunette in the north Dallas area that would be attractive, carry a conversation with extras I would be set!
Black Sedan's Avatar
I have this one Latina gal who offers a killer special for a nice rub and tug. Forty dollars. That's it. Smoking hot too.

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I've been in an "underground" body rub group for several years and we share details without exposing the licensed girls to a review board and we also share which body rub girls are worth seeing or worth investing more than 1-2 visits with to get better levels IF the guy is clean. Originally Posted by LazurusLong
Now that's interesting. And the Hot Latina.
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I'll echo Lazurus' sentiments and reinforce what he said about bodyrub girls not going postal and adding a hobbyist to the National Blacklist (see this thread as well). Like other hobbyists here, I've "gotten too close" to a provider, and it ended poorly. To make a long story short, she outed me on the National Blacklist (providing my real name). Every time I even think about seeing a provider from well established boards (who are typically the ones to use National Blacklist), my spidey senses go off. That's one of the main reasons I like and frequent mostly the bodyrub girls now.

While someone would have to Google my real name, the city in which I was "blacklisted," and the word "blacklist" in order for the offensive result to pop to page one of the Google results, that's just not another chance I'm likely to take without some ginormous assurance that she'll not add me to the blacklist for ending a "relationship."

Vulgar1999: My apologies for taking a tangent on your thread, buddy.
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Vulgar1999's Avatar
Very nice Int3rested!
Bodyrubs from a Provider can be very relaxing and allow each participant to gain some sense of comfort. However, I must confess, there a some hotties on here that, even though they promote rubs, make it more likely that I'd much prefer skipping the rub so that I have even more time to enjoy her body and skills.