Avoid Jayne/Sweet.Nothings: Total Time Waster

This was not the post I was hoping to make, today. In fact it is quite the opposite.

In the interest of full disclosure, I have seen Jayne/Sweet.Nothings before but not without a whole lot of frustration and squirrelliness. The misadventures can be found here:

Stood Up by Jayne/Sweet.Nothings
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ighlight=jayne

Here:

Jayne/Sweet.Nothings Redeemed herself (but not without some misadventures), Positive review to come.
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ighlight=jayne

And here:

Review: Adventures and Misadventures with Jayne / Sweet.Nothings and Katy
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1148907

Now, I have wanted to see her since our last sessions a couple of years ago. When we finally able to coordinate, we had a lot of fun. We share a lot of the same kinks. I had high hopes...hopes that were to be dashed.

Last week on 20FEB18 I had sent a message to Jayne / Sweet.Nothings . I also called an texted her. Nothing...Until today.

Then I get a text message on my phone and a private message here. We go back and forth. I try to set something up but she ghosts on me. Much later she replies and apologizes and tells me that things are hard for her and that I should walk a mile in her shoes. I tell her that I would not look good in heels. It is not that I lack empathy. I have a lot of empathy as long as the other person gives at least caring.

I should note that she only communicates over test which is infuriating, especial when coordination is breaking down. I asked her about this and she said that she gets nervous when talking on the phone. Seriously? If talking on the phone it too much for you, how do you function as an adult in the modern world. Apparently by what I have seen, not all that well.

Further discussion ensues. I decide to make and appointment. I am heading out the door when I get a text message that her ride fell through and could I pick her up. This is annoying but I give her the benefit of the doubt and agree to pick her up.

After much searching I find the address. I send text messages saying that I am there and get nothing back. I finally get pissed off and leave.

Then, when I am about half way home I get a message that she didn't hear her phone and could I come back. More texting back and forth goes on. I am still pissed but I figure I will give here one more chance.

One my way back to place where she is at, I stop and text that I am almost there. Then I get a message,"She is almost ready for you." I immediately text back "Who is this?" but get no response. Not a good sign.

I get to the place. I am told to go to build x. After much searching I find building x where I sit for 5 minutes. I send more text messages but get no response. I am pretty creeped out and decide to leave.

Sadly, it seems that others have experienced similar troubles as evidenced in the comments in some of her reviews and here:

NCNS by Sweet.Nothings
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php...ighlight=jayne

I understand that things happen but when the do you should try to make things right. Jayne / Sweet.Nothings did not try to make things right. Now by make things right, you don't have to do much. Just acknowledge it and maybe be give a reasonable amount of extra time and service. Hell, an extra 15 minutes would be enough to make a mends for the trouble. Whatever it is, it can be a token of care and really not much. During the course of the texting, it was quite clear that Jayne / Sweet.Nothings was not interested at all in making things right.

Even if she did offered to make things right I would be hesitant to take her up on such an offer. Just setting up the appointment would not be worth the frustration. I am not expecting to get anything in recompense from her. I really don't want to deal with here again. At this point I just want to let everyone else know so they can avoid her and the squirrelly frustration that comes with her.

You posted an alert on this? Instead of just writing a no review?

Pathetic.

Ncns belongs in coed mate
Yes she's a time waster and flakey but you already knew this,am.I wrong?
What's so special about her that you keep going back for more bs?
I'm sure they're plenty of providers in Austin with great service and top notch TCB

Why you keep rewarding shitty TCB with your hard earned money
I would have cancelled the appointment at the first sign of flaking
Shit happens.. car trouble,family emergencies, etc but this hobby is supposed to be fun and painless to set something up

You need to stop enabling these chicks
And stop jumping through hoops to hand cash to a provider
If she doesn't take her job seriously, let her starve

Ncns belongs in coed mate
Yes she's a time waster and flakey but you already knew this,am.I wrong?
What's so special about her that you keep going back for more bs?
I'm sure they're plenty of providers in Austin with great service and top notch TCB

Why you keep rewarding shitty TCB with your hard earned money
I would have cancelled the appointment at the first sign of flaking
Shit happens.. car trouble,family emergencies, etc but this hobby is supposed to be fun and painless to set something up

You need to stop enabling these chicks
And stop jumping through hoops to hand cash to a provider
If she doesn't take her job seriously, let her starve Originally Posted by Prince Akeem Of Zamunda

Learn from this guy, bro.

You posted an alert on this? Instead of just writing a no review?

Pathetic. Originally Posted by 1234NiceGuy

The guy posted a full accounting of what went on. I'm glad it got posted in here, instead of co-ed. Not only did this provider jerk this guy (and others) around multiple times, but someone else has access to her phone and her contacts/text/emails, when she never claimed she had a booker. The latter is definitely alert worthy, IMHO.

It sucks that you had this experience with a provider you obviously wanted to see again. But the idea of this business model is that men can get pussy without the hassle of dating 'real' women, in exchange for money. You went through more shit than some men do dating a woman, buying her dinner/flowers/etc. and still didn't get to fuck her. I hope you learned your lesson here. I have a little bar graph in my head with "money" and "hassle"- when the cumulative of the two goes above a certain point, I bow out. $400/hr? Out. $250 but 4 hours/multiple days trying to get my dick in you? Out. It's all math.

"In the interest of full disclosure, I have seen Jayne/Sweet.Nothings before but not without a whole lot of frustration and squirrelliness. The misadventures can be found here:"
I think this ^^^^^^ says it all.. ".... seen...before, but not without a whole lot of frustration"???? WTH none of them are worth a repeat visit to frustration land... WAKE UP!

Yep she is a flake. Wasted couple hours myself but i dont even try with Jayne anymore. Real shame because she can be a ton of fun.

I feel your pain and thanks for posting

moved to the right area

"In the interest of full disclosure, I have seen Jayne/Sweet.Nothings before but not without a whole lot of frustration and squirrelliness. The misadventures can be found here:"
I think this ^^^^^^ says it all.. ".... seen...before, but not without a whole lot of frustration"???? WTH none of them are worth a repeat visit to frustration land... WAKE UP! Originally Posted by nuglet

Appreciate your feedback.

The OP got the Maximus part right.

Maybe she should change her name to Not-so sweet nothings?

Lol, lots of energy being expended on this one.

Not the first time this will happen and will not be the last but thanks for the heads up.

And don’t worry, she will make up for it with an explosive kinky ass session that will make one’s head spin. Just might not be with you.

It's not equal at all, but lots of times us hobbyists are almost as culpable as the flaky providers, because we keep putting up with it. Not all of them get the message, but the smarter providers that are given more time to think about all the guys they stood up because their phone is oddly silent, will get the message. Pretty much any smart contractor of services that provides good services, when they don't flake out, should be able to figure out why nobody calls them anymore. But, no offense to the OP, as long as there are men who will jump through hoops over a couple of days to get in there, providers like this will continue to do what they're doing. Boycotting has been working as an effective tool at least since the civil rights movement.

You posted an alert on this? Instead of just writing a no review?

Pathetic. Originally Posted by 1234NiceGuy

I didn't think you are permitted to write a "No" review if the meeting never actually took place...