Sad to say, this does happen from time to time. We take efforts to keep the scammers/spammers off ECCIE, but we need to know about them before any action can be taken.
If anyone receives a PM asking for a cam show, meeting through another site, or an offer to meet once money has been exchanged through Western Union or another such service, please utilize the Report to Moderator button in the upper left corner of the PM, it looks like this
I know it is of little comfort to you sir, but this member has now been removed from membership here. And I apologize for having a less than pleasant experience for your first interaction on ECCIE.