Several of you have commented to me, you don’t understand why girls don’t come up here. I believe I have an answer to that.
In this industry it is important for us to check you out before meeting for our safety. We don’t know if you’re a cop, abusive, or who knows what else. That’s why we screen.
Now, I do understand there are some out there trying to send you to bogus sites for screening that cost you money to go through. Those are a definite avoid situations.
What those of us who are legit are asking for is references of ladies you have spent time with and their contact information. If you don’t have any, then we have alternative screen processes that require a first name, phone number, and some ask for even more information. I personally have you text me your first name and can screen from that.
We’re too busy to hunt you down and cause issues in your life. We just want to protect ourselves and those who have seen us in the past.