Question about FFM etiquette

I'm one of those apparently rare guys who don't constantly entertain fantasies of being with two women. I'm not even really that into FFM porn scenes. (Hell, it's all I can do to handle the occasional one woman at a time -- what would I do with two?)

But, while my thoughts don't constantly stray in that direction, I do think about it every now and then. As you might guess, my only knowledge of FFM encounters comes from porn, where condoms aren't much in evidence. And I found myself wondering the other day about such an encounter in the real world (professional or civilian), where condoms are an issue. How does one (or three, I guess) address the usage of condoms?

I can see only a few alternatives: The guy has sex (in the Clintonian sense) with only one of the women; the guy has sex with both women but switches condoms for the second woman (presenting the question of what happens if he decides to return to No. 1); the guy has sex with both women and leaves the same condom on throughout, and, I guess, they don't mind; or ... well, let's not stir up that pot.

Anyway, it's probably never going to be an issue for me, but, what the hell, it's a slow day, so I thought I'd see what the experiences of some of you who've gone that route have been.

I can change condoms in under 10 seconds...

Wear two...saves time

I like this question a lot. My only threesomes/foursomes have been in my normal life, with women who know each other intimately and so the condom switch isn't an issue as they know each other's partners, sexual history, etc. and they viewed the switch as a drop in the tempo of fun.

I have had an occasional interest in trying this in the hobby tho' and hadn't thought of this aspect until now.

My only threesomes were with my wife and her friends...In that scenario, I didn't use a rubber for my wife, but slipped one on when I was with the other gal. It doesn't really kill the mood by switching gloves. The other two can just play with each other while you suit up.

I can change condoms in under 10 seconds... Originally Posted by monkmonk

Your my idol Monk. I can soil a condom in under 10 seconds, but not change them that fast. Need more pratice.

My only threesomes were with my wife and her friends...In that scenario, I didn't use a rubber for my wife, but slipped one on when I was with the other gal. It doesn't really kill the mood by switching gloves. The other two can just play with each other while you suit up. Originally Posted by Jasser

+1

It actually works out perfect for the switch to give them some playtime.

The hottest "move" I have wanted to try is the girl riding and lifting up for the second to suck, go back for more riding, liff up for sucking with her finishing me off. Have to be with some like a SO since it would not be as enjoyable with the glove.

I can change condoms in under 10 seconds... Originally Posted by monkmonk

Spikebaby and myself have been witness to the speed and agility with which monkmonk can change rubbers, he does it almost as fast as he can get naked....See this thread. the man should hold seminars.

It didn't seem to put a damper on the mood...

Spikebaby and myself have been witness to the speed and agility with which monkmonk can change rubbers, he does it almost as fast as he can get naked....See this thread. the man should hold seminars.

It didn't seem to put a damper on the mood... Originally Posted by Dannie

AWWWWWW....I am getting all warm and fuzzy thinking about it all over again!!!! Wait....actually not warm and fuzzy....hot and wet seems to apply better in this situation


Spikebaby

I think I'm going to file a patent application for tear-off condoms, like the visor strips that motorcycle and open-wheel racers use.

I love threesomes--have participated in a number of them. Unlike Monk, I let the women take care of the cover change. Usually the "switcher" removes the current cover and the "switchee" applies the new one. It hardly slows the action at all.

Sir L, I understand WALDT, but I suggest you try a FFM. It's better than wonderful . . .

There is something about disappointing two women at once that is intriguing.

No reason for the women to be disappointed. That's part of the allure of a threesome--they can pleasure each other.

Sir L, I understand WALDT, but I suggest you try a FFM. It's better than wonderful . . .

There is something about disappointing two women at once that is intriguing.

LOL. Not intriguing -- paralyzing.

That's one reason my last several encounters have been of the L1/L2 variety -- they don't expect much, so it's hard to disappoint. Hell, it's been so long since I've actually done it with a woman, if it weren't for porn, I'd probably have forgotten how.

doubling condoms from my understanding is a big no-no.. LAtex on latex will cause it to break, then again this all hearsay, I have not dis proved or proved this theory, I just play extra safe thats all.