Fetish friendly

  • sirro
  • 06-18-2016, 03:59 PM
What exactly does 'fetish friendly' mean?

I asked young lady I met a while back and she stammered and stumbled before saying greek, but that was about it. I figure if a provider offers greek, she says greek, not fetish friendly.

I freely admit I don't have much imagination beyond the normal when it comes to sex and fetishes. I guess I'm just curious what are some of the fetishes that both providers and hobbyists have tried and enjoyed that the typical acronyms or descriptions don't cover?
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What exactly does 'fetish friendly' mean?

I asked young lady I met a while back and she stammered and stumbled before saying greek, but that was about it. I figure if a provider offers greek, she says greek, not fetish friendly.

I freely admit I don't have much imagination beyond the normal when it comes to sex and fetishes. I guess I'm just curious what are some of the fetishes that both providers and hobbyists have tried and enjoyed that the typical acronyms or descriptions don't cover? Originally Posted by ngen
A short and sweet definition in the sexual sense, a fetish is a desire to perform/do something that might give you more gratification than it does the provider. You may want the provider to pee on you or do some role play or something else that might turn you on or give you more satisfaction/gratification than a sexual act. In most cases, providers use the term fetish to refer to things they might be willing to do that are outside of what's traditionally on their menu.
For example, a trending fetish in the world of porn is incest. So you may want to have the provider play the role of your mother/daughter etc. Not something I would do but an example of a taboo fetish.
berkleigh's Avatar
I am Fetish Friendly and have been very much involved in the BDSM Lifestyle for years. I am open to select fetishes however I do have my limits.

Might I suggest to you that you visit the Another Realm Forum and also check out a site called FetLife.
There are a few other sites out there, but at least it is a start in the direction you are inquiring about as well as very informative.

Elizabeth Whispers is awesome lady who can most definitely give you more detailed information.


Watersports,strap on play,cuckolding,foot hooking,scat,infantilism and other bizarre shit fall into the fetish category



Oh and eye lid opening... sorry i couldn't resist lol
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To be honest most of the girls have no clue what fetish friendly means or even what a fetish means. If they do pretend to have a clue it will be more than likely things that aren't necessarily considered fetishes. Stuff like greek, rimming, dato, or maybe even fisting. If they really knew what people consider fetishes they would probably change their tune and not even say they're fetish friendly.
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Latex, Rubber, Spanking, Dangerous Situations like BDSM or sex in public or dangerous places, Specific Smell/Odor, or anything inanimate or having to deal with the 5 senses.

Wiki has a full definition and description of Fetish:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism
  • sirro
  • 06-20-2016, 10:02 AM
Thanks for replies all. Most of the stuff ya'll listed is stuff I was already aware of. But its good to know I wasn't off base with what I already thought.

One question (and I may regret asking but...) what is eye lid opening?
Berkleigh is the first name that popped into my mind. A lot of fetishes require a certain level of trust and she is someone you can completely trust to both know what she is doing and will leave you happy.
I am Fetish Friendly and have been very much involved in the BDSM Lifestyle for years. I am open to select fetishes however I do have my limits.

Might I suggest to you that you visit the Another Realm Forum and also check out a site called FetLife.
There are a few other sites out there, but at least it is a start in the direction you are inquiring about as well as very informative.

Elizabeth Whispers is awesome lady who can most definitely give you more detailed information.


Originally Posted by berkleigh
I DON'T DO scat or receive watersports ;-)
Guys like to ask "what fetishes I offer" and that sounds like someone just wanting to get a thrill out of sexting... so I always respond with "what are you looking for ?"
I am a well versed BDSM participant. My interest in this arena predates my beginnings as a companion. I ventured into my first dungeon several years ago and have been learning and playing ever since then. People use "fetish" and "kink" interchangeably as they have relevant definitions. I've heard fetish described as the desire for objects (leather, latex, stockings, etc.) whereas I've hear kink described as the desire for situations or behaviors. I usually opt to say I'm kinky or more specifically submissive as I feel that more so centers the fact that there are specific experiences that I love to explore.

I wouldn't say that a fetish equates to something that brings a client more pleasure than it does a provider. Whether it's inside or outside the hobby, my hard limits are the same. I do what I am comfortable with and what I desire and I refrain from what I don't prefer. The various forms of play I've offered in sessions (ice play, receiving breast/nipple torture, role play, orgasm control, impact play, or giving and receiving golden showers) are experiences I also thoroughly enjoy. And yes, there are more extreme and taboo kinks and fetishes. Which doesn't mean the ones that are less extreme aren't "real."
oktickler's Avatar
I've contacted a few ladies who've advertised fetishes friendly while looking to fulfill my foot and tickle fetish, and nothing. I'd tend to agree that most really don't know.
I'm fetish friendly . I give water sports , foot fetish , mommy and daddy play , strap on , submissive and dress up play like. I have handcuffs , whips and chains and blindfolds.
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  • L.A.
  • 06-27-2016, 10:59 AM
Fetish can include many many different things. It bugs me when I see provider ads and showcases that say "fetishes 100 extra" without even knowing what fetish I might have. You want 100 extra because I have a foot fetish?
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