On a separate note...just got back from Whole Foods on Post Oak...and talk about some a ton of hot girls there...makes me almost want to go back and start seeing civilians...then again maybe not..

Not to put a damper on the guy talk, but I think this brings up an interesting point.That was the conversation we were having with some ladies recently. Ironically, they were the ones who brought up the fact about being more candid about being ok and actually wanting a physical relationship with out the "strings"... My friend is also a fellow hobbyist both looked at each other like..."is this really happening?"
I think nowadays, women (civilians) are becoming more vocal about their sexual needs/wants/desires.
Especially in a place like Texas, it seems the general consensus has always been that men were more than welcome, if not even expected to, be very forthright about their need/want of casual sex, whereas women would never dream of discussing this sort of thing, even if it is what they were feeling/thinking/wanting or even doing. Most (civvy) women I know (friends, family) are even still embarrassed to talk about the fact that they masturbate.
I think this has also been compounded by the fact that there has been a double standard placed on sexually free women, i.e. men could have as many casual encounters as they wanted, but if we did, we were whores.
I remember about 7-8 years ago (so 2005-2006 and before I started providing), I worked in a popular local boutique that also had an adult section. Women would come in many times to buy toys, condoms, etc, and even though I was a female as well, and there were no men around, they would act totally embarrassed about buying these sorts of things and would be shy if they asked me questions about them.
I think this is definitely changing though. Whether it be through the prevailing political climate, pop culture or the media, women are finally starting to come out and be more frank and open about wanting/needing sex and not afraid to admit they engage in casual encounters. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston
Ironically, they were the ones who brought up the fact about being more candid about being ok and actually wanting a physical relationship with out the "strings"... . Originally Posted by SNL9933So I am pretty much going in reverse, or the old school way of things, lol.