"It's all in how you word it."

Hey guys and dolls,

A friend of mine and I are having a debate about ads and race description. I am sure this topic has been covered before, but humor me because I come to the co-ed once in a blue moon.

Now, when I look at a girl's photo, I can see automatically (92% of the time) what race the girl is. In my years I have observed the different physical characteristics of most races. I can't tell a Korean from a Japanese person or an Egyptian from a Saudi, but you get the idea.

We all know that girls often lie on their ads and say they are some ridiculous rainbow of races when really they are just __-(fill in the blank).

I want to know how much this really matters to you clients when deciding whether or not to see a girl. If you see a picture of a dark skinned (non-white) girl and think she is hot, does the fact that she put, "I am Dominican, Russian, Vietnamese, Bolivian, and French" make her more appealing than if she was just honest and put "I am black"? Are you left with questions if she does not put her racial background in her ad text, assuming that the picture will tell you all you need to know?

I am very aware of the racial dynamic in the US and I know that it incorporates itself into all of our social interactions, but when we are talking about a secret meeting between one man and one woman, does race, or presumed race, supersede beauty and reputation in your decision making?

There are no right or wrong answers. I probably won't even come back to this thread for a few days. Feel free to voice your opinion.

Hey guys and dolls,

A friend of mine and I are having a debate about ads and race description. I am sure this topic has been covered before, but humor me because I come to the co-ed once in a blue moon.

Now, when I look at a girl's photo, I can see automatically (92% of the time) what race the girl is. In my years I have observed the different physical characteristics of most races. I can't tell a Korean from a Japanese person or an Egyptian from a Saudi, but you get the idea.

We all know that girls often lie on their ads and say they are some ridiculous rainbow of races when really they are just __-(fill in the blank).

I want to know how much this really matters to you clients when deciding whether or not to see a girl. If you see a picture of a dark skinned (non-white) girl and think she is hot, does the fact that she put, "I am Dominican, Russian, Vietnamese, Bolivian, and French" make her more appealing than if she was just honest and put "I am black"? Are you left with questions if she does not put her racial background in her ad text, assuming that the picture will tell you all you need to know?

I am very aware of the racial dynamic in the US and I know that it incorporates itself into all of our social interactions, but when we are talking about a secret meeting between one man and one woman, does race, or presumed race, supersede beauty and reputation in your decision making?

There are no right or wrong answers. I probably won't even come back to this thread for a few days. Feel free to voice your opinion. Originally Posted by !!Sexy Erotic Morgan

Great topic SEM, I do think it's funny when a provider put she is that or this and you get to her incall and her ass is Black, or white or not mix at all. As far as does it affect my decision on rather if I see her or not my answer is No. I have seen most races in and out of the hobby, the only thing that affect my decision is very old pics in her ad, and if she say she is 25 and she is really 40 lol. Now I love love older women, but In this case I wouldn't repeat seeing her again at all do to her indiscretions.

I don't pay much attention to what providers claim to be. Like most men, I am visually stimulated and I focus on the pics. If I like what I see, her ethnicity does not matter. And if I am not visually attracted I move on.
When I see one that I like, I start doing my research and make a decision based on what I can learn about her.

If I see a picture that doesn't seem to match the race listed in the ad I will move on. Makes me wonder what other deception would be in store for me. Obviously the catch-all "mixed" is a hard one to deal with, we're all mixed in one way or another. But if it doesn't seem right to me, I'm moving on.

+1, I happen to agree with rcinokc.

When descriptions, be it race or anything else, don't match what I'm clearly seeing then I'm most likely going to pass. As he stated, if you're going to lie about your race, what else are you going to lie about? I'd sure hate to show up to my session expecting a "classy Dominican" and get a hood rat African American. I'd likely just walk.

I get it, it's a sales tactic. "I'll put mixed, it'll sound more exotic." But if that's not what you are then don't use it. Mixed is thrown around very freely on here. I'm mixed too, have all kinds of races in me. However, I most closely resemble a Hispanic and it's the heritage that I associate with most. So when creating my profile and requesting a session, I put Hispanic.

just my 2 pennies....

I don't care about race. It is important that the pictures be accurate and that the provider is attractive enough for my preferences.

Some ethnicities generally have certain characteristics that are not compatible with my preferences in looks. Does it make me a racist to say that I don't care for wide noses, large derrieres, hair that looks and feels like wire, or that, in general, there's something about Korean women's faces that I don't find attractive for some reason, or that there's a whole lot of Eastern European porn stars who do absolutely nothing for Little Lance, or that I'm not partial to Cubans or Dominicans? Or does it just make me a consumer with a certain set of preferences? Shrug.

That being said, while I might find a significant number of one ethnic group to be unattractive, I do judge each woman individually, and there are plenty of women in my non-preferred groups that I'd be more than happy to see.

The problem is that unless I have a pretty good idea of what she looks like, I would probably pass, because I'd need to have a pretty good idea that she was (for me) an outlier in her ethnic group. So pictures become more important in the decision-making process.

Morgan you didn't know i was part Korean???? LOL

I don't care about race. It is important that the pictures be accurate and that the provider is attractive enough for my preferences. Originally Posted by gladius82

Exactly

For me race does not matter....the reviews and the pics need to be checked out and then I make a decision....I love the rainbow represented here on eccie.....how else would an old white guy even get a chance to interact at this level in the RW????
Ladies be proud to be you, that trips my trigger faster than other things when I'm browsing..

Simple. The lie doesn't work. Everyone knows the code. It is a waste of time. If a client chooses you, it was not because he was fooled by the ethnicity description.

Why would it matter if a woman is 1/4 Portuguese, 3/8 Bolivian, etc.? Out of happenstance I've sort ended up seeing more AA providers lately and from a personal perspective I'm inclined to see more of them...Based off the girls I've seen, they seem more passionate and definitely better DFK.

Call Eros. They'll tell ya "Ebony" is in the top searched and ranked among the highest categories listed. Busty Ebony is likely searched more than "Busty Exotic" over the web. Besides,for the sake of sanity, its awesome to let a gent know what to expect as well as to filter out those NOT seeking an Ebony.

All the gents I meet who adore me know exactly what they are getting as an Ebony Lover. Of course I could list my German, Afro-Latina Heritage and all that gobbly goop, but all this melanin comes from AFRICA.

For me race does not matter....Ladies be proud to be you, that trips my trigger faster than other things when I'm browsing.. Originally Posted by MarineButch

be proud to be you.. well said.. that extends to photos (no photo shop, up-to-date) and ethnic description.

I take the opposite view.. race does matter. the question was not about would you see this or that race, it's about false race description, and if it matters or not that a Lady would fib.

SEM mentioned Blacks, in particular.. I am turned off by a Black Provider that advertises as "mixed".. I'm biased, because I prefer truly Black.. I would respond to an ad that said "Black as coal, huge afro, big black ass and wiry pubic hair" much faster than a "mixed" posting.

Morgan you didn't know i was part Korean???? LOL Originally Posted by Brandee69

Which part is Korean? Is it your taint? If you post taint photos I could tell ...




I tend to not see race when I am seeking company. Beautiful women are in all of the races, and the taint is above races.