Hey Sweet heart, My name is Heather and I am out here in Charlotte NC. Its very slow, unless you have regulars out here. I advertise on adult search and switter, But these men are cheap, I dont know if its the north and SC economy itself or what is going on but, guys down in these parts are use to bargaining with the girls off bp. and do away with screening and verification process. So its very difficult to go through 100 texts and calls and not being able to find a true gentlemen in the muck of the search. Relocate is my advice, I hate it down here. Good luck girl