EX SEX

So, who on this Board has had sex with their ex-spouse/SO once they have "split the sheets" (so to speak)(i.e. divorce, move out)?

Was it a one-time thing? Or did it go on for a while (hint: define "a while")?

Were you the one initiating the split, or did your partner? What were your main motives?

[There's a group called "Texas Exes" but I don't think this is their main activity. ]
Marcus Aurelius's Avatar
Yep
atlcomedy's Avatar
Hell yeah!!!!

I call it "exes with benefits"

You know each others likes/dislikes. For those that keep a count (I think a bigger deal for women), you don't count as an extra notch on the bedpost.

You respect the boundaries of her current relationship, but if she is in between relationships, nothing wrong with asking her if she'd like to stop over for a glass of wine....
pyramider's Avatar
Would you feel more compelled to screw her harder since you were on the receiving end during the split?
Me!

And I almost made the mistake again a few days ago.
discreetgent's Avatar
Yup.
Yep, while I was still single...

She had few redeeming factors - she was a squirter (before squirting was "cool") and gave a great blow-job... other than that, she was a nut case...

H
As crazy as this may sound, any ex of mine is an ex for a reason. Either I didn't want her, she didn't want me, or both. I have never given a woman an opportunity to dump me (or be dumped by me) twice.

I consider allowing a woman access to my body to be an endorsement. If she's an ex, she doesn't get my endorsement.

Some have proposed it, some have tried it. None have ever succeeded. When it comes to exes I am the ultimate unlayable man. LOL
Marcus Aurelius's Avatar
Yep, while I was still single...

She had few redeeming factors - she was a squirter (before squirting was "cool") and gave a great blow-job... other than that, she was a nut case...

H Originally Posted by urhuckleberry
Crazy sex is the best sex.

You know male tarantulas have hooks on their front legs that keep the female's fangs from biting them during sex.
Once the deed is done it's jump and run.
Just say no: no to the confusion, no to the drama, and no to that sweet, sweet peen.
John Bull's Avatar
Let's see if I get all thes questions answered Lord T.
Yes, repeatedly till she remarried
She did
Was better than when we were married. Actually got a bbbj once.
Marcus Aurelius's Avatar
If you don't experience everything you want to with a wife I feel sorry for you. The alimony does bite the balls though.
atlcomedy's Avatar
Just say no: no to the confusion, no to the drama, and no to that sweet, sweet peen. Originally Posted by Austin Liv
There is the drama risk....but the reason it works is there is no risk it will not be good, or to borrow your phrase "sweet, sweet peen" All jokes about exes and what not aside, it isn't always easy to find someone you are truly sexually compatible with...
atlcomedy's Avatar
Just as an aside, most couples don't break up because of the sex.

The numbers 1, 2 & 3 reasons for divorce is financial trouble or disagreement in one form or fashion (WTF can find a link if need be).

As far as (serious) dating couples it has to do with misaligned long term objectives (including kids, career, money) or a general unwillingness to commit....its not the sex...
many times....and then some. i even talk about it with so now. i ask her all the time....will you still let me hit it when or if we split. she says heck no....but i know she will miss my daty and king dick action with the gyro roll and filling the walls up.

got an ex on the ropes now calling me to have a benefit fund started. i cannot wait...havent been with her in like 10 years. it should be exciting.