providers - why the no indian men for some of you?

just curious...

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just curious... Originally Posted by texastoast

I've tried to start discussions like this about racist "policies" in showcases and it hasn't gone so well lol. I guess folks don't like to think of themselves as part of the problem.

NBA, no Asians, no Indian, etc policies are similar to having a sign on your business door that says "no blacks allowed." I doubt folks would disagree that is racist... why is it not racist when providers do it?

I've been told it's not about racism it's about preference but if your preference is to avoid an entire ethnic group then obviously that preference is rooted in racism or a product of growing up in a racist system. And I don't think my personal preference needs to play much of a role in my work as a provider anyway. I prefer to fuck for money lol.

It is ignorant to judge an entire group of people based on a few members or stereotypes. If that made sense then most providers would be more likely to have NWA policies because most of our interactions are with white men and most negative experiences I've heard about have been with white clients.

But I'm not trying to tell folks how to do business. You want to exclude folks based on race then do it but don't be naive about the fact that it is racist- it is pretty much the definition of racism lol. Own your shit.

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Thank you, come again Originally Posted by rockerrick

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Not sure which above is most alarming!

RR we understand you are keyboard antagonist so we understand laugh and move on.

Liz I find it alarming and scary when people see personal preference as racism. So if I prefer white or Spanish ladies then I am racist? When the color is not the reason why I don't see black ladies.

Hell RR comments may be true so then that makes them racist for not seeing Indian's.

I call it preference not racism.

Sam

+1
Without sounding racist, I would never have sex with a black woman. Not that I think there is something wrong with them, I'm just not attracted to them. Same for Asians. Now white and Hispanic is what I prefer. Does that make me racist?

I would hope not.

Not sure which above is most alarming!

RR we understand you are keyboard antagonist so we understand laugh and move on.

Liz I find it alarming and scary when people see personal preference as racism. So if I prefer white or Spanish ladies then I am racist? When the color is not the reason why I don't see black ladies.

Hell RR comments may be true so then that makes them racist for not seeing Indian's.

I call it preference not racism.

Sam Originally Posted by Samcro84

So as an Indian guy on the board I say this. Fuck you RR. Would be happy to put my foot up your ass if I ever meet you.

Liz,
Thanks for the defense and I think it has some truth but I think the reality is somewhere between your view and Sam. Preference sometimes really is that. I look at skin color the same as breasts size. Just a preference.

And some people have had bad experiences so I get that. But I'm sure providers have had bad customers that are white and I never see "will not see caucasians" in a provider profile.

Sam,
I agree you have a preferences and that's legit. I do too. But if a hot black provider offered you a free session would you turn it down? That's the difference btw preferences and prejudices.

I'm sure there are providers and clients both that are racist but it's tough to paint everyone with one brush.

I would love to see Claire bloom but she won't see me. Bummer but there are plenty of ladies I can have a great time with so I don't sweat it that much.

Let the trolling commence.

PM your address pussy (that is if your ass can back your mouth up) and your wish will come true!

It is normal for all of us to have various preferences. For some unknown reason, I tend to gravitate toward short, petite dark-haired beauties, many who are of Hispanic descent, but not exclusively.

However, lately I have really been surprised by a very hot, tall blond-haired lady who I found delicious, a certain Asian lady who doesn't know what it means to "go easy" on an old buy, and by a certain red-haired lady who always sets me on fire. And, yep, there are a couple of chocolate ladies who have been absolutely marvelous.

Bottom line, each person (hobbyist & provider) brings unique beauty, looks, skills, attributes and personality to a session. Variety is the spice of life and I wouldn't have it any other way. Wouldn't it be boring if all we saw were duplicates of what our specific favorite might be. In that case, we might just miss the experience of a life time.

It's TGIF today, so Peace Out to All...

Liz I find it alarming and scary when people see personal preference as racism. So if I prefer white or Spanish ladies then I am racist? When the color is not the reason why I don't see black ladies.

Hell RR comments may be true so then that makes them racist for not seeing Indian's.

I call it preference not racism.

Sam Originally Posted by Samcro84

When dating, I'm sure plenty of provider's 'prefer' not to date fat ugly old men. But they will see them for money. Some providers will see ANY white person, but reject entire races.

It is a complex subject, for sure. Most groups of people are most comfortable with those they are accustom to being around. Fighting these tendencies and trying to be fair and just, is often difficult.

There are underlying issues that go a bit deeper than "preference." Some issues we simply choose not to think about because we want to see ourselves as "good people."

So as an Indian guy on the board I say this. Fuck you RR. Would be happy to put my foot up your ass if I ever meet you.

Liz,
Thanks for the defense and I think it has some truth but I think the reality is somewhere between your view and Sam. Preference sometimes really is that. I look at skin color the same as breasts size. Just a preference.

And some people have had bad experiences so I get that. But I'm sure providers have had bad customers that are white and I never see "will not see caucasians" in a provider profile.

Sam,
I agree you have a preferences and that's legit. I do too. But if a hot black provider offered you a free session would you turn it down? That's the difference btw preferences and prejudices.

I'm sure there are providers and clients both that are racist but it's tough to paint everyone with one brush.

I would love to see Claire bloom but she won't see me. Bummer but there are plenty of ladies I can have a great time with so I don't sweat it that much.

Let the trolling commence. Originally Posted by notimportant

By that logic...
Would you have sex with a dude?
If not, your homophobic.

By that logic...
Would you have sex with a dude?
If not, your homophobic. Originally Posted by Kickrocks

And what if a female provider refuses a session with a woman? It's a complex issue. There is no easy answer.

By that logic...
Would you have sex with a dude?
If not, your homophobic. Originally Posted by Kickrocks

Male prostitutes generally understand they will have sex with other men. But it would be interesting is a male prostitute refused to have sex with a woman.

And what if a female provider refuses a session with a woman? It's a complex issue. There is no easy answer. Originally Posted by Cap'n Crunch

I don't think its as complex as you think it is. Bottom line is sex is one of the most intimate interactions you can have with someone. If a person , guy or girl, isn't completely comfortable with a particular race or age or whatever, there should not be any pressure or guilt to do it.

Unlike you I'm an actual grown up.I gave up schoolyard fights decades ago. It's called maturity. But thanks for the offer.

PM your address pussy (that is if your ass can back your mouth up) and your wish will come true! Originally Posted by rockerrick