As a late bloomer, my situation is a bit unique. So what was your first time like with a provider/ hobbyist?
I have always shared my experiences as I have nothing to hide, well almost nothing.
I was very shy as a young man and would freeze at any interaction with girls.
Being shy was more fear than anything els, yes I was afraid of girls. I was exposed to them early and had many opportunities from late night unsupervised advanced spin the bottle where the two would go into a private room and make out, or what ever teenagers did. I remember mostly just sitting waiting for our time to be up.
My first taste of tongue was during a skinny dipping party, maybe a dozen of us. The girls were in the water and the boys would dive in, pic a girl and kiss, then the girls would do this. This older teen picked me and French kissed me for the first time. She was hot and told the rest it was my first kiss, I was red as a beet.
There were many opportunities as girls would throw them selves on me and I did nothing, again fear. RW situation for 15 years or so that I can't explain without giving to many clues to my identity left me a virgin until I was 30, yes the 30 year old virgin!
I decided it was time and out of the blue I decided to go to Las Vegas to loos my virginity. So my first experience was with a Vegas prostitute at one of the whore houses.
I was so scared and nervous, but I got in my car and drove the 40 min or so. When I got there it was in the middle of nowhere. I went in and a lady greeted me and lead me to the bar. I had a drink and waited. Then the parade of ladies started to come out. I sat there on a couch as they came out dressed in skimpy outfits. They would say there name and line up one by one. I could not remember there names. I looked them over and as a newbie I picked what I thought was the best looking girl (big mistake).
The rest left and my pick took me by my hand and lead me to her room.
We sat for a minute as she told me the rules and took payment. She then asked me to strip so she could inspect me. Then she started to undress and sat back on the bed.
She expected me to just suit up and fuck her, not going to happen. I asked if I could touch her and she said " no, you did not pay for that" I told her that it would help if I could touch and taste her. Mr Jonson was scared as hell and was not going to play.
She said, " maybe I should just blow you being your having trouble" she was mean!
So I got dressed and we went out to the ATM and got more cash.
She then started to give me a CBJ and I eventually got hard enough to fuck, so I entered her in missionary. I lasted about 1 min and came. I got dressed and left feeling terrible and very disappointed, and yes still scared of women.
The next day I decided to go back and try again. This time I really looked at the ladies as they came out. There was this short blond, more mature then the rest and she was very sexy. I picked her and she lead me back. I told her that I had a bad experience yesterday, she said " I remember you" as the ladies sit behind a one way glass watching the guy before they come out. She said I will take care of you don't worry. She was very sweet and after inspection she undressed. I asked if I could touch her breasts, she said I could do what ever I wanted. She was very nice and made me feel so comfortable, I wish she was my first. I licked her, she gave me a CBJ and then we fucked. I lasted much longer and it was great.
The next day I came back and picked a hot young blond again. Thus time another lady came into the room and said she was going to watch as the one I picked was new. The new girl inspected me as the other lady watched then she came over and inspected me. Once the menu was explained the other lady left us alone. I felt her body in multiple positions then licked her pussy, she blew me then we fucked in MPOCFS.
This was hot and I was getting better in just three days and three ladies. The first one did do damage as later in life I would have anxiety and performance issues at times. Proves that the first time leaves a lasting mark, good or bad.
My first experience since my dreaded first with a prostitute was about ten years ago. I found a young lady in the chronicle personals. She was a sweet young lady and when I got there she was in a two story apartment up north. We sat on the couch and talked, I asked what was on the menu, she said everything including Greek but that was a little more. I told her that I just wanted to lick her for an hour strait. She gave me a puzzled look and said ok. She lead me up stairs as we undressed. She lay there on her back so I asked her to get on all fours, she did. This was the first shaved pussy I ever licked, I told her as I licked her from her back to her belly really eating her ass, my first dato. I then flipped her over and spread her legs licking her for the remainder of my hour, time was up and she said can I suck your cock, yes! She gave me a great BBBJ with CIM and swallow.
I visited here once a week for a while just licking her and she finished me with a BBBJ CIM. Then I moved on to others escorts, again only licking them for an hour strait, no sex, no BJ.
After a few GF's and my first divorce I went back to the pool of ladies. This time BP was there. My first hobby experience as I know it now was Niki Knows, hot blond with hair down to her ass. I was just going to lick her for the hour but she took control and basically fucked my brains out. I would see her once a week, she introduced me to ASPD and the rest is history.
So what was your first time in the hobby like and how did you find it?
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