Appropriate etiquette on a late non-review request

CaesarC's Avatar
Prior to setting up an appointment with a lady, it had never been discussed. She has other reviews up on Eccie. As I'm getting dressed to leave, she tells me that she would rather I don't write a review.

I'm not sure I'm comfortable with that. Perhaps I had a session that was lacking. Perhaps I need the reviews to maintain premium status. Whatever, it's been eating at me a little bit, and I'm curious to get your take on this, ladies and gents alike. Respect her wishes, or since it was at the end of the session/not disclosed earlier, it's completely legit to post one?
LuckOfTheOrient's Avatar
From my understanding if an escort advertises on this site she can not have a no review policy.
Now on that note, would I respect her request.
It may depend on if I ever wanted to see her again.
If you do, don't write it.
If not, go ahead.
LuckOfTheOrient's Avatar
From my understanding if an escort advertises on this site she can not have a no review policy.
Now on that note, would I respect her request.
It may depend on if I ever wanted to see her again.
If you do, don't write it.
If not, go ahead.
You can write a review or not, it is YOUR choice, not the provider's.
will88's Avatar
It's your choice, you paid your money.
Guest113018-1's Avatar
When you say if she advertises on here she can't have a no review policy, does that mean placing ads in the ad section or does just having a showcase count as advertising as well. Just curious because there are a ton of showcases but only a small percentage place ads and/or are active on the boards.
Grace Preston's Avatar
It has been explained to me that if you advertise ANYWHERE on the net, not just here, you cannot have a "no review" policy.

I'm at the point now where I don't "need" them.. so when asked, I always tell the guys that if they want to write one or need it for the PA then feel free, but I don't "need" them to.
Roxane's Avatar
Was the service lacking? Do you need a new review up? If the answer to both is no, then putting a review up after she requested would be in bad form. In my opinion. This attitude of forget what the escort wants just because she wants it is juvenile. But helpful to other escorts to determine what kind of client you are. But yes, to answer your question you can post one if you decide to.
It has been explained to me that if you advertise ANYWHERE on the net, not just here, you cannot have a "no review" policy.

I'm at the point now where I don't "need" them.. so when asked, I always tell the guys that if they want to write one or need it for the PA then feel free, but I don't "need" them to. Originally Posted by GracePreston
You sure don't babe, your work speaks for itself!
beachcomber789's Avatar
I like to read reviews, good info on there. Now I am not real detailed about me sessions like some guys, but there was one provider I wanted to see..but when 3 of her last 5 reviews were bad...saved me a bad time and money. So review if you want, but please review if they are bad or fake!!
You are free to do a review regardless of the providers request. But, unless the session was bad or you really need PA, i would respect her request. If you need the pa credit, I would tell her upfront you need to do a review.
EmilyEzzell's Avatar
Prior to setting up an appointment with a lady, it had never been discussed. She has other reviews up on Eccie. As I'm getting dressed to leave, she tells me that she would rather I don't write a review.

What was your response to her after she stated her preference?

I'm not sure I'm comfortable with that. Perhaps I had a session that was lacking. Perhaps I need the reviews to maintain premium status. Whatever, it's been eating at me a little bit, and I'm curious to get your take on this, ladies and gents alike. Respect her wishes, or since it was at the end of the session/not disclosed earlier, it's completely legit to post one? Originally Posted by CaesarC
Depends on what you said to her in person.
Reach out to her via pm/phone. Clarify her request and let her know you are letting it eat at you a little bit.
CaesarC's Avatar
I was non-committal. Regardless, it's not that big of a deal. TCB was pretty bad. BBBJ was pretty great. I'll live and move on.
txman123's Avatar
Unless I feel some deception or dishonesty or just plain old shitty treatment that others need to be warned about occurred, I respect the ladies wishes.
I say write the review if the service was lacking or you were put in danger and need to alert others to prevent anyone else from falling into a trap, but if you plan on wanting to see her again, then I would respect her wishes. Maybe she just doesn't want a ton of reviews so that she doesn't come off high-mileage. Who knows. There are dozens of reasons, but the bottom line is: ultimately it is up to you on what you want to do.