In/Out Call to small hotels - not getting noticed

I am sure this has been covered before, but cannot find anything after searching for a bit now.

I declined an outcall to a hotel with a very small lobby and no restaurant or bar.

I am a bit paranoid of walking in and then leaving an hour or so later. I do know to dress very low key (not in CFM shoes, dressed to the nines, and etc).

I've read several times where hotel staff and security work with police when they notice something out of line.

What do you all do to not look suspicious?

I don't use small hotels or do outcalls with a new person. If you're simply going to see one person and you screened him, it's not like you have a sign on your head that says "hooker."

Simply walk in and act like you are there for legit reasons. If you don't know where the elevators are...simply ask vs. walking around and looking out of place. You could be there for any number of reasons and it is really none of their business.

Act like you belong there. There should be no reason for you to interact with the staff. You should know the room number ahead of time. Just walk in and head for the room/elevator. When you leave, you don't even have to go out through the lobby. I always park near the side or rear entrance. While you can't enter those doors without a card key, you can exit like any other door. Just try to make yourself as innocuous as possible.

Agree with all the above. I would be concerned about an incall at a small hotel more than an outcall, first because the increased number of short visits at an incall are more likely to cause attention than one visitor to my hotel. There are many reasons someone comes to a hotel for a brief amount of time.

Also--and this is from hotel consierges who knows I sometimes have a young lady visit me--they are more concerned about a room rented to a lady than to a client. The volume of traffic bothers them, but also a legal concern--they are more concerned about knowingly renting a room to an escort than ther are about renting to a guy who then hires a lady. Much easier for the hotel to argue there was no reasonable way they could have known what a guy was going to do vs they should have known what a lady who has her face on escort ads would do.

Agree with all the above. I would be concerned about an incall at a small hotel more than an outcall, first because the increased number of short visits at an incall are more likely to cause attention than one visitor to my hotel. There are many reasons someone comes to a hotel for a brief amount of time.

Also--and this is from hotel consierges who knows I sometimes have a young lady visit me--they are more concerned about a room rented to a lady than to a client. The volume of traffic bothers them, but also a legal concern--they are more concerned about knowingly renting a room to an escort than ther are about renting to a guy who then hires a lady. Much easier for the hotel to argue there was no reasonable way they could have known what a guy was going to do vs they should have known what a lady who has her face on escort ads would do. Originally Posted by Old-T

Yep! I have heard of escorts actually buying the hotel staff gifts in return for their silence. Um wtf, why should they know what you are doing to begin with? If you are banging 3 guys a day and you stay in a hotel for a week, that's just asking for trouble...especially if you live in a town where everyone knows who you are.

Incall hotels should be high rises with a lot of traffic. If you are low key, and low volume no one will notice much. Not a good idea to wear clothes with your tits and azz hanging out either or meeting more than one guy in the lobby at that same hotel. The desk staff and bartenders are not stupid. It's not like Vegas where the hotel actually hooks the guys up with hookers...many places frown on this.

I do a lot of dinner dates, so I make sure not to be seen with more than one person leaving the hotel. I have them go down before me and meet at the car, and I don't have them walk me back in when returning either. I am sure it would be more than obvious if I were to be seen with 7 guys in 5 days ha ha.

For the most part when I check in, check out, or leave the hotel to go to the store, I am in my uniform that I wear for work back home including my name tag, very little make up, and my hair up...no one raises an eyebrow.

I try to blend in and not dress too provacative{carry my sexy clothes in a bag to change in}

If there is a back door that is not locked,I will try to slip in without having to go thru lobby

Incall hotels should be high rises with a lot of traffic. If you are low key, and low volume no one will notice much. Not a good idea to wear clothes with your tits and azz hanging out either or meeting more than one guy in the lobby at that same hotel. The desk staff and bartenders are not stupid. It's not like Vegas where the hotel actually hooks the guys up with hookers...many places frown on this.

I do a lot of dinner dates, so I make sure not to be seen with more than one person leaving the hotel. I have them go down before me and meet at the car, and I don't have them walk me back in when returning either. I am sure it would be more than obvious if I were to be seen with 7 guys in 5 days ha ha.
Originally Posted by London Rayne

I try to blend in and not dress too provacative{carry my sexy clothes in a bag to change in}

If there is a back door that is not locked,I will try to slip in without having to go thru lobby Originally Posted by DallasRain

I don't know if I can say anything that hasn't already been covered. I just wanna see my avatar.

All the comments/advice above is great. I too, am paranoid & Gigi & I have recently discussed this elsewhere.

I like to arrive in my casual clothes, no make-up, etcetera, and I always book a larger hotel with lots of parking & walking space. I also try not to schedule more then 2 gents when I'm there. I never stay for more than 1 night at a time anyway.

Also, I never leave any trace of what activity has gone on. I take all condom wrappers with me, flush the used condoms, get rid of the beverage evidence, don't ask for extra towels or sheets (I've heard some ladies do this), & of course, watch the noise level. Lol.

I don't know if I can say anything that hasn't already been covered. I just wanna see my avatar. Originally Posted by SkylarCruzWantsYou

I am sure this has been covered before, but cannot find anything after searching for a bit now.

I declined an outcall to a hotel with a very small lobby and no restaurant or bar.

I am a bit paranoid of walking in and then leaving an hour or so later. I do know to dress very low key (not in CFM shoes, dressed to the nines, and etc).

I've read several times where hotel staff and security work with police when they notice something out of line.

What do you all do to not look suspicious? Originally Posted by gigi_gypsy

Thankfully the hotel casinos where I live are very LARGE and I specifically state that I will not go to hotels where, for example, you have to 'have a room key' and the client has to then come all the way downstairs to meet you. It's so obvious too what I see going on in casino hotels. But these hotels tend to be a bit more lax about the girls who come in and look so obvious.

For me, I dress in a business suit and slacks and carry a laptop case and a small tote. As Evie commented, I also wrap up and take 'all evidence' with me in a plastic bag and dispose of it somewhere else. I look like a businesswoman top to bottom.

Large chain hotels are best rather than those smaller boutique hotels too. I still can't believe either that on my damn ad I stress I DO NOT go to motels and people from Motel Six will still occasionally call.

The larger hotels for me are not as scary as the small ones like the one the guy was staying at that I declined. It is a small nice hotel - had to walk by the really small lobby to get to the elevators.

As DallasRain and Cpalmson mentioned, in through the lobby - out through as side door.

Like Evie said, we discussed this elsewhere - I was just hoping for the invisible cloak (like on Harry Potter)

Thank you everyone for your input!!!

Any time I visit a lady in hotel, small or large lobby, I try to carry a briefcase or a folder with some papers in it, so I look like I belong.

Last hotel I visited was a Holiday Inn Express, small lobby. Room was on second floor. Elevator was right past the front desk, down a short hall, but stairs were located close to the front desk. I walked in like I knew my way around, folder in hand, smiles at the pretty lady behind the desk, and headed up the stairs so I would not be waiting at an elevator door or have to ride an elevator with another guest or staff. SMiled at a different lady when I left 90 minutes later.

It is all about looking like you belong, not looking lost. I had never been in that building before, but I was able to quickly evaluate the place as I walked in and determine my path. Of course, a few million points on several frequent flier/hotel plans does make it easier to look at home in a hotel.

All the above comments are excellent. Just act like you belong there...attitude is everything!!

I also take extra towels & sheet so i do not have to bother maid too much!
and if it is a hotel with breakfast or happy hour....avoid the exposure...eat out or in your room.

When I do outcalls to small hotels, I dress in business attire (I don't want to draw the wrong type of attention to myself). I always have the client's room number ahead of time, so I don't go wandering around like I'm lost.