this is not an option, it is a MUST!!!!!!
I am sorry to rant again but I was out of town and had the best new clients I had seen in a very long time.... Every single one was polite contacted me professionally.
It's not that I am being harsh but I sure as hell would not go out on a date with anyone without knowing their name and at the very least having their phone number. YES I CHECK A FEW THINGS!!!!!!!!
So what you are saying when you contact asking hey available? More so when contact about specific times that CLEARLY HAD YOU OF DONE YOUR HOMEWORK would see are not a day or time why would I not be aggravated?
I ignore some, I let some know so that MAYBE in hopes they will NOT continue to do this.
It makes me wonder what ladies they see? If you say you are a long time hobbyist and STILL DO NOT SAY HI MY NAME IS SO AND SO AND HAVE NOT BOTHERED TO READ MY BIO ON HERE OR WEBSITE THIS FREAKS ME OUT.
Maybe some ladies do NOT care but i do. I am not one who wants to loose my home, career career (Which most gents I doubt would either) I also enjoy my hobby and do not plan to give it up anytime soon. But when my safety could be at risk because of the 1 idiot (lately many) i think you need to get off these boards. We are ALL adults (so i thought)
Gents, I am not asking a lot. Just asking for GENTS!!!!!! I think most ladies want the same thing. We have bio's on these sites for reasons. We worked hard to become those who are able to utilize the sites we join. So we DO NOT have to deal with the dorks who choose to just go down the line. Which is fine but please READ what is needed to book with us.
Some require WAY more then I do.
I am going to start going this way then that should be really interesting to see how many do not think of safety and security as key.
See if we all see the gents who don't want to contact us properly the first go round. I doubt half of us would be around.
Same thing goes for the gents, if a lady is willing to see every gent without a name or anything that is basic common sense I think I would be concerned of my own safety.
Rant Over!!
PLEASE THINK OF SAFETY ALWAYS