Speaking of overnights...

Of the married hobbyists, are there any gentlemen who want an overnight with their favorite provider but simply don't have a good enough excuse to get away from the SO for a night? The guys who never travel for work, or the SO never leaves town, etc...? When it's not a question of hobby funds, but rather hobby time...?

Ms Claire,

Yes, there are several providers with whom I would like to spend an overnight, but it simply is not possible because of the SO. Where are you going with this thread? Are you looking at ideas the hobbyists could use to set up local overnights?

I frequently travel for business but with rapidly changing agendas and plans, it is not easy to bring a friend--lot's of potential issues--on out of town trips. Time to hobby while at home is always a challenge. I have several eccie ladies in cities that I frequent but we often have to change times because of my variable agenda on the road.

Curious to hear viewpoints and ideas from other providers and hobbyists on this topic. Is it possible for a hobbyist with a SO to have overnights? Inquiring minds would like to know.

Thanks for starting this thread--we should get a lively discussion.

an overnight appt is not only possible, but is a "been there, done that". Am I the only one that has an S.O. (wife) that enjoys it as much as I?
Our issue is that many ladies on here are of the frame of mind that see a couple is worth double the money, when in fact... it's a doubles date but one of them is already paid, so YOU DON'T GET TO CHARGE TWICE! More than once I've seen the price jacked up just because there's another lady (a fun one that is bi, I might add). And there are more amenities at our place than any hotel or in-call has to offer.

Nuglet...
You may be in the minority, not only do you have a playful wife but a killer pad!!

Yes BB, that's where I'm going

Yes BB, that's where I'm going Originally Posted by Claire She Blows

Good deal. I am always looking for new ideas and opportunities in the ATX area.

Am I the only one that has an S.O. (wife) that enjoys it as much as I?
Our issue is that many ladies on here are of the frame of mind that see a couple is worth double the money, when in fact... it's a doubles date but one of them is already paid, so YOU DON'T GET TO CHARGE TWICE! Originally Posted by nuglet

The short answer is No you are not the only one. I would even suspect this is a growing demographic. Still not as large as the traditional profile but, growing none the less. I also agree with your last statement. I take it at face value when someone says you are paying for my time.

BB and Claire- In at least a gesture to move the conversation along, an out side the Hobby hobby could provide a reasonable "excuse" for an overnight. Think hunting, fishing, casino gambling etc.

Note: Some of these excuses could be dangerous to those with native Texan wives because they will pick up on the small things like.

Why did you pack a shotgun for deer hunting? It is July, Turkey is not in season. And my personal favorite, "I have always wanted to see your lease, when can WE go?"

Nuglet...
You may be in the minority, not only do you have a playful wife but a killer pad!! Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

Thank ya maam. We DO have fun.. lol

I travel so overnights were easy arrangements. Never thought of having one until a provider friend suggested one. She traveled a significant distance; sounded like she needed a getaway. Had several with her; was lots of fun.

I guess I'm lucky to have a job/profession where I can do just that, having an overnighter, but it's all about getting to know the gal and asking the question of would I want to spend a full night with this chick? I guess we wouldn't get much sleep.
I'm def game, but it's gonna take time for me to be comfortable enough and enthusiastic to go for it. I've already been asked by a recently acquired friend of mine in Houston and she charges a ridiculously low amount for the privilege, but again, it's all about picking the right time.
I don't think I've known her long enough, but anything is possible. Houston or Austin, either would work. I travel all over so I can make up a tangible story.

So what's the point of an over-nighter? I actually like to sleep at night so it wouldn't be feasible for me to do that activity. However, if I actually wanted to spend 6-8 hours with a lady then I'd pencil in an afternoon to a late evening where I am at my most active.

there's a lot to be said for cuddling after the deed, and a smooth body to snug up to.

I see many married hobbyist overnight they find time for their TRUE ATF's

an overnight appt is not only possible, but is a "been there, done that". Am I the only one that has an S.O. (wife) that enjoys it as much as I?
Our issue is that many ladies on here are of the frame of mind that see a couple is worth double the money, when in fact... it's a doubles date but one of them is already paid, so YOU DON'T GET TO CHARGE TWICE! More than once I've seen the price jacked up just because there's another lady (a fun one that is bi, I might add). And there are more amenities at our place than any hotel or in-call has to offer. Originally Posted by nuglet

I would say that you are in a small minority -- a swinging couple that hires a provider. Actually the only one I've heard of that has done so. Of course, my wife is not bi so the attraction of hiring a provider would be for a M-F encounter with her watching. But as Seinfeld says, "Not that there's anything wrong with it."

My fave place to overnight is the Riverwalk in SA. It's also out of town while on business travel so I don't know many people there, which is good. The Hyatt with a room overlooking the Alamo is the place of choice. Play a bit when she gets there....dinner on the river....boozing or wine at any one of several bars after....maybe a barge tour.....and some taint exploration following.