you gotta get reviews first. they need proof you;re a real provider hun, I'm sorry i know it's though. I guess try offering a special to men on p411 who write reviews in your ad...
Also, I’ve noticed you started several welcome threads on OH2, but have had them closed down for rules violations. Have any of those guys sent vouchers so you can get verified over there? I imagine that could help you get to your goal as well.