I did try Secret Benefits and Seeking Arrangements with some mediocre results. That's why i asked about AFF. I don't think the list of KC women looks fake since few look TGTBT but I thought I would ask for opinions here.
I tried it. Had a guy ask me to meet up in a not so desirable place(I did not expose what I do at that time)and he was qite rude in what he was saying to me. The rest who contacted me acted like desperate little boys in a candy store. Not the experience I'd consider worth while.