TOFT?

Hello All!

I'm not new to the hobby, but I've never been one to take one for the team. I'm finding very few woman located near me other than on BP with little or no information to go on. Looks like I may have to TOFT more frequently and I'm looking for pointers.

My primary concern is safety and rip-offs. Anyone want to share some info either here or via PM? Or maybe there is a useful web resource you would recommend.

Thanks in advance for any assistance!

Buck

P.S. FFH, I'm not the PO PO. ;-)
dynamitekid's Avatar
1) It's TOFTT
2) Learn how to utilize reverse image searches and FB
3) If a bitch's pics look like supermodel's, she's not at a Motel 6 waiting to fuck strangers for $100
4) Don't drive more than 20-25 minutes for an appointment, unless you have some sort of idea that the bitch is worth the trip
5)Only take in the cash you need

Hmmm, I'm probably missing out on some things.
Thanks DK! Also thanks for correcting my leaving off a T as I don't know how I let that slip. I do all the things you suggest, but haven't met someone that doesn't have at least 1 review from someone I trust.

Can't find any info on anyone within 20 to 25 minutes of me. Their pics match their social media, but just not sure how to keep from being robbed or something. Guess someone has to be the first and report though. I may be taking the chance in the near future!
Big Stig's Avatar
I have been panning in the Backpage stream for a while now and all of DK's advice is good. One thing I would recommend is avoid incall if at all possible. Outcall gives you much more control over the situation. Hookers that are intent on robbing you will not want to do outcalls. If you do incall, be vigilant, check the surroundings and be fully prepared to bail quickly and possibly defend yourself.

Never, ever pay them until the appointment is done. If they don't agree, send them packing. Never let them out of your sight.

Don't discount ads without photos. Most of the photos posted are fake, deceiving or outdated anyway. Ask them to send photos. If they are real, they will. If not, move on. Let them know in advance that if they don't match the photos, there will not be an appointment and you will send them packing.

Trust your judgment, if something doesn't seem right, move on.

All that said, I have had a lot of success with Backpage. You will need to pan a lot of stones, but occasionally you can find some gold. It takes a while to learn to spot the crap, but eventually you'll be able to.

Be careful, choose wisely and you'll do fine
I always tell them my arrival time will be 10-15 minutes later than when my GPS says. I've seen and learned quite a bit arriving early and driving the area or motel lot.
Boyfriends ducking out, cops and yes pimps leaving a hotel room.
Don't pull up and camp out in front of the address on a private incall street. Do a drive by then find a discrete lot or park around the corner.
Get a feel for the area. Look for any unusual vehicles in the hotel lot. Unmarked vans with tinted windows or no windows, no business markings, obvious unmarked cop cars.
People milling around that's don't look like they are doing anything but waiting for your "I'm almost there " text.
Once I feel it's ok then I'll text them I'm close or I'm here.
Sometimes you can ask them to step out on the porch or come down from the room at a hotel. I don't like doing that at a hotel as it creates more foot traffic. Unless it's a side door entrance where they have to open the locked door.
Hotels with separate room entrances are better but if you have to go thru the lobby act like you belong there. Make eye contact w the desk people, smile, nod, whatever.
Never take anything but the required amount of cash plus a bit more in case you want to add time once you see the girl, condoms, keys.
Leave your wallet and any valuables hidden in your locked vehicle.
Stay away from chics that have bad habits. LE is typically watching these chics for those reasons not because they are whores.
Thanks for all the feedback!
loneshark's Avatar
Hello All!

I'm not new to the hobby, but I've never been one to take one for the team. I'm finding very few woman located near me other than on BP with little or no information to go on. Looks like I may have to TOFT more frequently and I'm looking for pointers.

My primary concern is safety and rip-offs. Anyone want to share some info either here or via PM? Or maybe there is a useful web resource you would recommend.

Thanks in advance for any assistance!

Buck

P.S. FFH, I'm not the PO PO. ;-) Originally Posted by Buckeyeguy5
I take it you live in Ohio. I think you may find info on BP girls and others on USA sex guide. The members review BP girls and others depending on the area you live in seems to be good info for the major cities of Ohio.
Unfortunately, the Weirton/Steubenville area is closest to me and very little info available. :-(
loneshark's Avatar
Well you're screwed unless you want to drive a couple hours to hobby.
Yep, screwed...but not in the way I was hoping.
Yep, screwed...but not in the way I was hoping. Originally Posted by Buckeyeguy5
What about Morgantown? I can vouch for Ciara and Kayla - they're both worth a visit. Ciara was a little rushed when I saw her in her trailer. Kayla was much more calm and quiet, but she came to my hotel.

Kayla: http://morgantown.backpage.com/Femal...-kayla/5731211

Ciara: http://morgantown.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts//5573916
Kayla definitely peaks my interest, but Morgantown is a much further drive than the Pittsburgh area. Loving all the information provided!
  • ron32
  • 06-30-2016, 06:52 AM
All great tips on here, I do pretty much the exact same things. Everyone on here has at one point or another TOFTT, so don't feel bad about it if it happens. It will sometime.

Check out SA for cash hungry college gals in your area if ads are non-existent on BP, etc..
Kayla is worth it however she is a one pop only so good for a qv or 30 min unless you can hold out.