REFERENCES.. PLZ READ

So I posted something in the provider area about me/ giving references. I do NOT keep #'s MY CHOICE.. And if you NEED A REFERRAL from me PLEASE gentlemen .. send me a message call text email dove whatever and let me know BEFORE the providers request. I want everyone to be safe!! And I have a lot on my plate. IF it has been over 6 months ... I am unable to give a referral & when I go UTR.. I'm Done. But the first 6 months you can try but I am starting a business and my everything is going to be focused on that. If you respond please don't be rude because today I am speaking very fluent sarcasm. I am going to lay my lil tired body down for a NAP!

Ya you need a nap, getting a little grouchy. :-)

Damn someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed...

Ya you need a nap, getting a little grouchy. :-) Originally Posted by royamcr

Ya think, roy??? Hope a guy doesn't use shayla84 as a reference to go see Savannah, or vice versa, either...

Is it that hard to contact the provider you are using as a reference first?

Because I'm the same way. I don't give a reference until I hear from the guy first. I do this for two reasons.

1. That way I know he initiated the contact.

2. That way my memory has been jogged so that I know who I'm talking about. This is especially important if I have only seen someone once or twice. I don't save information, so it helps to have a little memory refresher first. It makes giving the reference faster, easier, and far less complicated.

LOL I am not petty, and I am too grown to act like a spoiled child. I doubt that she would need a ref from me unless she went to iowa or tx but I would still give one, I dont know her and I don't hold animosity over opinions and over this hobby, I have too much other crap in my life to get mad over what a fellow hooker has to say about me and I am sure shes the same. Not to mention she didnt do anything to me lol sooooo lets not add fuel to the fire...

...lets not add fuel to the fire... Originally Posted by shayla84

That's a deal, Shayla. I apologize. Wasn't trying to stir the pot, just trying (in my foolish ways) to be a little humorous.

I'm out on this thread. Be safe, my dear...

its fine sweets lol just some people like stirring the pot and you know that but thank you and stay awesome babe

So Saturday I am going to Topeka to say Goodbye to a cousin who has Liver cancer & I kind want to SCREAM BUT I will give references to anyone who follows my requests... I will be ungrouchy tomorrow..doing some MEDITATION & JAZZ My native American blood can't have wine when I feel like this... NOPE

Well we haven't gotten off to a good start but being native, alot of my family has passed from liver failure, suicide and some even passing out on the rr tracks on our settlement, so I am sorry... I don't drink at all cause my whole family is drunks it seems and I just can't do it, I hope and am sending positive vibes to you.

Oh my gosh, that is sad news Savannah. I'm thinking of you during this tough time, and prayers to you and your family.

I'll have some fire water for ya.

I'd end up climbing a tree or blowing bubbles out of my nose.. but thank you all I am just out of sorts. besides that the third option would be I would need somebody to bail me out of jail and I don't know anybody up here like that lol

LOL I am not petty, and I am too grown to act like a spoiled child. Originally Posted by shayla84

Even if I doubled the donation?

So Saturday I am going to Topeka to say Goodbye to a cousin who has Liver cancer Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

I'm so sorry to hear this. Take care and have a safe trip.