I'm a pretty hardcore lingerie fetishist... and as much as most men are thrilled to try, it's not something that most of them really connect with. It's ok, I appreciate the effort
I'm totally into panties! Silk is wonderful and I prefer fullbacks, but beyond I prefer Aubade or AP to Vickie's any day, Frederick's for a cheap fix, and something nice and Trashy if you're just going to rip it off with your teeth anyway. I'm very much into panty stuffing, panty gags, queening, and many other deviations along that theme... and oh yes, there's more.
Chances are you won't find many ladies who will *shun* you for your for your particular predilection, but I sympathize with your possible difficulty finding someone who truly enjoys losing themselves in such pleasures. I'm a long way from Austin, so I've got no recommendations for you. Good luck!
~Mme X~