Anyone successfully propositioned a girl who is NOT a provider???

Okay, here's the deal......almost every day I go to a little coffee shop near my office and there's this hot little latina who works there.....you know the sort. About 22...23....5'-1"...curvy....big full titties....gorgeous face and big brown eye's!

I always chat with her and she's very friendly and always seems to have a smile and a happy attitude...just a really nice girl. I can even say I admire her work ethic. She's a single mom working two jobs to support herself and a toddler...and I'll admit that I've had some wild fantasies about taking her to bed....

The other day I was getting a latte and she looks a little down and I say why the long look today??? she's looks down and says "oh...things are just a little tight. My car needed repair and now I'm worried about paying my bills coming up at the first of the month"

Now my mind goes nuts with this idea....and I wonder if I said something like "if you'd come spend a couple of hours with me one evening this week I'd be happy to give you a couple hundred bucks...i'm sure that would help you out"

If I said that I can't help but think she'd get the message about what that couple of hours would entail!

So....has anyone tried this and if so what was the result????

I'm thinking of her possible responses from very bad to really good

Very bad: She gets really insulted and mad and turns me into the cops for soliciting her.

not quite as bad...but still bad: She get really insulted and mad and tells everyone that I'm a sick pervert who offered her money for sex but doesn't call the cops.....and I have to stop going to my favorite coffee shop

not so bad: Looks shocked but politely turns my offer down with a embarrassed laugh....

best case: Say's "I'll think about it...i really need the money....and then calls me a few hours later asking when I'd like to get together......and possibly I can get some regular pussy with this hot chica and we can help each other out with some personal needs she and I both have....she can supplement her income and I can have sex with this hot girl who turns me on every time I go in there....

seriously....i'm one big boner every time I'm in there waiting for my coffee....watching her move....watching her big firm breasts sway as she moves and works....sigh!

Any comments anyone?????

Write your hobby # down on a piece of paper. Hand it to her where no one else will see you and say maybe we can help each other out. Let her make the next move. If the number is not tied to your real world info, if she does say something to someone it will be her word against yours. To get rewards you have to take some risk.

Is there some reason you can not help someone who needs a hand without expecting something in return? Why not tell her she is worth helping, and simply do so, with no strings attached?

If you want to sleep with her, ask her out on a date because you find her sexually attractive. She just might go out with you. If you're married and there is no open agreement to have sex with others, oops! Ya shoulda indicated ya wanted that before ya got married...lol

If ya just wanna give her money to have sex with her, then tell her that too. Especially, if you are married. Be honest about your intentions and what you really want. Try not to be offensive by choosing your words as wisely as ya can, unless you find a Cyreno De Burgerac for this kinda thing...LOL

Lying about your intention is the worst you can do. Leaving out details about who you are and what you want from her is as bad as lying about it. This is why there are professional women who do this....lots and lots of different appealing choices. No need to drag her into this world if it isn't your heart's desire to lead a lady here. If ya believe it's the best she can do and you're doing a good thing for her, then do what your gut tells ya to do. You are the only one who will have to live with your decision, how you handled it, and what comes from it.

Good Luck!

Good advice from jwood. Nothing ventured nothing gained.

I always get chatty with (ladies) no matter where...cashiers, servers, elevators, wherever and if the opportunity permits I give them my number on a card and tell them to call me if they wish. Some do, some don"t and others when I see again may say they lost my number and ask for it again. It seems to work better if I never ask for their number. It surprises me how many younger girls I meet this way.

Now it works for me and I am an old man(with a young mind).

I was wondering would you have a problem with having sex with her without paying her? sounds like you are at that stag to find out if she would sleep with you or date you.

Oh boy!
well for starts...I can't imagine why this beautiful young woman would want an old reprobate like me for a boyfriend....she is in fact younger than my youngest daughter....nothing wrong with me....just being realistic!

So no....not looking to date her.....on the other hand, I'm a very fit and healthy middle aged guy and my libido is still going strong and ...just damn! This girl really gets me going!!! That round shapely ass....those big firm breasts...those big brown eye's....that sweet smile she gives me when I'm ordering coffee and we're just chatting!!!

And the comment about leading her into the hobby....I wasn't thinking about that at all!

Really she's just a beautiful every day girl you meet out in the work place who turns me on and... frankly...I had not thought past my simple desire to take her to bed...eat her pussy till she squeals and than fuck her brains out till she squeals some more! In fact the whole idea of offering her some needed cash in exchange for a couple of hours of hot sweaty sex was clearly driven by my "little head"

Bottom line I'm a horny guy whose probably become a bit jaded by having been able to purchase the attention of lots of hot young girls that look a lot like her in the hobby....

I have from time to time pondered whether or not having been a busy hobbiest since my wife passed away has ruined me when it comes to real world relationships with woman.

Frankly.....on a personal level I really like this girl...she's smart....hard working....friendly and has a good attitude about life...qualities that I often don't find in today's young people......and when I think about it...would not want to cause her trouble of any kind.....and the comment about offering her some help..."no strings attached" warrants serious consideration.

Maxi...I just read your post again....and I think your a very smart woman and I really appreciate that...thanks!

Again...i would NOT want to cause this young woman trouble of any kind!

Go for it . Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.

PM me her info.

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Why the fuck would you want to hit on a non-provider???

Why the fuck would you want to hit on a non-provider??? Originally Posted by Wakeup

Might be for the challenge to see if he has enough game to play it off. I'm sure if she needs the money and finds him attractive enough she'll go for it. Best of luck.

Why the fuck would you want to hit on a non-provider??? Originally Posted by Wakeup

Because he wants to fuck her.

there are a large number of open minded girls that don't want to be escorts, but would be open to a friendship with someone, and that friend helping them.....more like a SB on some level. A lot of people prefer that friendship and connection with someone, rather than a GF for an hour, that plays the part because she is getting paid. And a lot of people like the 1 or 2 hour GFE and then go about their normal lives. We all like different things, none are wrong or right, they are what we like

Slip her your number, tell her to text you. You obviously can't have the conversation while she is working. If she is offended, you have lost a friendly person that serves you coffee, if she is open to it, you have gained a fun friend. And you get that satisfaction of knowing that you actually helped her....and had some fun too

Hahahahaha.... you mean this crowd....? the guys here on ECCIE...?? Ah hahahahaha.... good one!!