Is it just me.....

Number1stunner's Avatar
.......or is it BS when you see providers up charging for BBBJ vs CBJ?

I could see if CBJ was for safety but an up charge for BBBJ is BS to me...

Thoughts?
.......or is it BS when you see providers up charging for BBBJ vs CBJ?

I could see if CBJ was for safety but an up charge for BBBJ is BS to me...

Thoughts? Originally Posted by Number1stunner
Market economy. Easy to understand. Customer prefer bbbj than cbj
To me it doesn't matter as long as it's advertised that she charges more for the extra service. If she says she does a service and then you show up and find out that service is extra. That is a bait and switch and unfair to all the other providers. In the case of an upsell the hobbiest should make a review and make note the extra service was an upsell.

Anytime I see a provider require an extra fee for a service I usually move on to the next provider as I assume she doesn't like providing that service and probably will receive lackluster service on that upsell.
Number1stunner's Avatar
But isn’t the upsell for BBBJ similar to some providers upselling for different positions? I had a girl upsell me for K9
Dorian Gray's Avatar
: enters thread :

No, it's not BS.
She can charge how much & for what.
Just like you choosing to or not to see her, is not BS

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Owj's Avatar
  • Owj
  • 07-02-2020, 08:48 AM
Fairly common. Many charge more for bbbj, Greek, bbfs if they do it because either they see increased risk or view it as a premium level of service. Charging extra for any position besides mish is pretty much bs because that is a normal and realistic expectation.
Number1stunner's Avatar
Hell charging more for BBBJ is BS....so you saying your health and safety is worth 20 dollars more?

Seems like we all hate CBJ’s ......so why the upsell for something that will earn repeat business?

Every thread I see that CBJ is mentioned.....gets a PASS....I can understand upsell for BBFS cause they taking a risk of getting pregnant.

Almost as bad as masseuses upselling to take off their top and then wondering what taking us too long to “finish”.......when people watch porn, they ain’t looking at fully clothed females while jacking off...
ICU 812's Avatar
Do the due diligence research before you schedule with a provider . . .and there will be no surprises.

That is what ECCIE with premium Access is for. Use the tools.
Number1stunner's Avatar
I’m not saying I got surprised by it.....I see it advertised on their ads.
They need to make money somehow. They'll charge whatever the market supports. Some do not do it at all, some do it selectively. I had great CBJs and poor bbbj a few times. Skills matter.
tyboy1's Avatar
It's their choice to charge whatever they want and it's our choice to pay or not. If we don't like the menu move on.
It's their choice to charge whatever they want and it's our choice to pay or not. If we don't like the menu move on. Originally Posted by tyboy1
Your absolutely correct, it's their choice if they want to do bbbj, but if they advertise it but do not say it's extra is that wrong? Is it ok for me to walk under those circumstances? Is it wrong to providers who I passed on because this providers said she did it and I choose her over another who was $20 bucks higher?
I always ask up front. If they say okay they should state if there is an up charge for it. Personally I do not think they should. Nobody likes surprises.
Number1stunner's Avatar
It's their choice to charge whatever they want and it's our choice to pay or not. If we don't like the menu move on. Originally Posted by tyboy1
Yeah, we all know this....
....but the point is so many ads now say “nothing bare” or “no bbbj” or safe play. I understand if they are CBJ for safety reasons but CBJ to make an extra 20 on an upsell?

That is BS.
Richard Fitzwell's Avatar
To me it doesn't matter as long as it's advertised that she charges more for the extra service. If she says she does a service and then you show up and find out that service is extra. That is a bait and switch and unfair to all the other providers. In the case of an upsell the hobbiest should make a review and make note the extra service was an upsell.

Anytime I see a provider require an extra fee for a service I usually move on to the next provider as I assume she doesn't like providing that service and probably will receive lackluster service on that upsell. Originally Posted by Fizley

You said if perfectly...when I see an upsell for anything I move on. I shake my head every time I read Greek queen/lover then see a +60 for the service. Ho