In a Serious Relationship With an ASP? Guys, Could You Handle It?

Hello! I hope everybody is doing fantastic today.

My question pertains to the guys here. Guys, would you be able to handle a serious relationship with an ASP? Why or why not? Would it bother you to know that your significant other was in this line of work?

I've never given it much thought. I don't see why I couldn't. As a matter of fact it sounds like fun!

I've never given it much thought. I don't see why I couldn't. As a matter of fact it sounds like fun! Originally Posted by odb753

Admit it.. so you could fuck her for free nonstop while everyone pays right? I see how it could be an ego boost . Great question OP!

I would never be doing this if I had someone special in my life. I would also never date a guy who thought this was some how "cool." Different strokes.

Have to admit I've had that fantasy, but reality always steps in and urges me to be careful what I wish for.

I'm NOT good at Sharing! Never have been!

I'm NOT good at Sharing! Never have been! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Not when it's real love...I agree.

Not when it's real love...I agree. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Amazing how perceptive you are my dear! That being said, what does that say about the guys who would be OK with it? Hummmm....

Oh hell NO. IMHO and no offense to the ladies. But I don't think a lady working in this line of work is SO material. Once she leaves the business, then sure. But I personally have no first hand knowledge of a relationship like that actually working for more than a few months. And to knock the boys too. I don't think a man that runs around paying girls every weekend for play is SO material either.

I would never be doing this if I had someone special in my life. . . . Different strokes. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Amazing how perceptive you are my dear! That being said, what does that say about the guys who would be OK with it? Hummmm.... Originally Posted by Still Looking

Exactly why I would never be in that type of relationship. That's not what I consider love...it's lust and fun.

I have met a few SP that under ordinary circumstances I would date. But to date a girl that would continue to work as an escort, I don't think I would fare well with such an arrangement. But I could be a casual friend.

ditto on the different strokes point!

I have been in a relationship which is an "open" one for over 30 years and have successfully merged my two lifes

I would never be doing this if I had someone special in my life. I would also never date a guy who thought this was some how "cool." Different strokes. Originally Posted by London Rayne

I agree. I couldn't do it, either. I met someone that was willing to "try" it but I said no. If anything unfortunate were to happen, I wouldn't want anyone close to me to be involved.
Besides, I can see the guilt eventually eating away at me and I probably wouldn't enjoy this as much. It's a lot easier when you're only accountable to yourself. My thoughts on this, anyway.

I would like to think that I could handle it, trust in our love, etc., when when it comes down to it I just couldn't. Hell, my first provider was just wonderful. I saw her a couple of times back to back. When I read a review by another guy it was difficult. Irrational. Yes. But we are all human.