The last week has left me with unexpected hobby money and free time, so I made a couple of attempts to use both of these on some of the worthy ladies on this board. One lady left me feeling frustrated, and the other satisfied despite not being able to see me. The net result left me with questions about what we are entitled to expect in regards to TCB.
My first failed encounter from this post was regarding a verified provider in Rochester with page after page of sterling reviews. I don't want to disparage this lady, so instead of saying her eccie handle I'll call something innocuous like "Zoey Laughs." I made an appointment with Ms. Zoey after seeing her post in the providers ad section, and I made the appointment around four days in advance, knowing that I would be making an infrequent visit to Rochester. Ms. Zoey responded quickly, screened quickly, and we agreed on a time, all via email. The day before our encounter she sent an email with her phone number and requested a text the morning of. I complied with this reasonable request, but received no answer. About an hour before our scheduled visit I sent another email, and she responded that she had "lost" her phone, but would communicate the details via email. She gave me the street address of the incall, which was in a condominium building, asked that I bring dry white wine, and asked for a thirty minute delay due to time she had spent looking for her phone. All things that I found to be acceptable (even the wine for an AM appointment). I respond to the building, park in front, and send an email asking for the room number, with no response. After 10-15 minutes with no response I send another email, again with no response. I send one more email asking for her to let me know if it was off so I could find other use for my hobby time. No response to that either. All told I waited on her street for 45 minutes, which in conjunction with the 30 minute delay, took 1:15 minutes, and left no time to find a replacement. A double disappointment since Chloe, I mean Zoey, had been on my wish list for a long time. One week later and there's been no email or text to give even a weak excuse.
Contrast that with today, where I saw that another young lady on my wish list, Busty Baby Girl, had posted here that she would be in Syracuse. An email was quickly replied to, then a PM to verify me was enough to set up an appointment. Shortly after that I received another email telling me that she had a health issue that might preclude us from being able to experience everything that a hobbyist might expect. We agreed to postpone our encounter for a better time. Busty Baby Girl was the opposite of "Zoey Laughs" in her openness and ease of communication.
Why do I tell this prolonged and frustrating tale? I certainly want to vent just a bit, but I also want to know what others on this board expect from each other. I waited 45 minutes with no communication from one lady. Is that common? Is it unreasonable for me to expect an email cancelling our plans? Is Busty Baby Girl's open lines of dialogue the norm? What are provider's expectations from us?