No Rush?

"No rush session" what does that mean to you?

not repeatedly asking if I'm ready to cum yet after 5min into the session

They are only asking you that because most of us are done and sleeping by then . . .

Not watching the clock.
Being completely engaged in the session for the entire time of the scheduled session.
If things are hot and heavy near the end of the schedued time, both should continue to completion even if going a little bit over. Guys should be respectful of the time and not take advantage.

Some people think it is fuck for the scheduled time and then hang out as long as they like without compensation

Some people think it is fuck for the scheduled time and then hang out as long as they like without compensation Originally Posted by mikkifine

And some of us want to get the hell away from you girls as soon as possible after we nut.

Some people think it is fuck for the scheduled time and then hang out as long as they like without compensation Originally Posted by mikkifine

It is not cool to short a client time since TIME is what he paid for.

If he paid for 60 minutes give him at minimum 55...

But if he paid for 60 minutes, do not start trying to herd him out after 30 minutes, doing so you can expect him to ask for a refund, things might get weird, and if he is a member on here, expect a NEGATIVE post about the experience in 24 hour hours.


Now, to DEFEND the time frame.

Guy pays for 60 minutes.. after 60 minutes he needs to go since he has used his alloted time.

Its one thing to be getting dressed and he is not done when the 60 minute mark hits.. use common sense here.. but if the guy wants to linger longer.. and he paid for 60 minutes, there are 2 things that need to happen

if it is her place or she paid for the room, he needs to get dressed and leave on a good note

if it is his place or he paid for the room, she needs to politely leave




We pay for the ladies time... using more of it than we paid for is not right...

be respectful of them and their times and you know what? you make friends...and some where down the road you might set up a session for 1 hour and she does more with you in that 1 hour than seems possible

None of that 'cum for me' bullshit. Period. Total buzzkill. The ONLY exception may be on the back end of a second (or third) pop, and it's done in a hot, 'glaze my ass/tits/whatever you like to get glazed with your huge load!/I want you' kinda of way.

Wanting to go straight to the sex as soon as I walk in the door, and not in a 'I want you badly/tearing off clothes' kinda of way (that way would be good, of course, and assuming MSOG is on the table). Tagging along with this is cbj'ers who try to put the condom on a limp noodle. At least try to stroke some life it first (sensually...not like a jackhammer).

Answering texts and calls in mid session. This suggests you have someone literally around the corner, waiting for me to get done.

Getting dressed IMMEDIATELY after a round. Nothing says 'I want you gone' more blatant than this. It also says, 'I never want to see you again'.

None of that 'cum for me' bullshit. Period. Total buzzkill. The ONLY exception may be on the back end of a second (or third) pop, and it's done in a hot, 'glaze my ass/tits/whatever you like to get glazed with your huge load!/I want you' kinda of way.

Wanting to go straight to the sex as soon as I walk in the door, and not in a 'I want you badly/tearing off clothes' kinda of way (that way would be good, of course, and assuming MSOG is on the table). Tagging along with this is cbj'ers who try to put the condom on a limp noodle. At least try to stroke some life it first (sensually...not like a jackhammer).

Answering texts and calls in mid session. This suggests you have someone literally around the corner, waiting for me to get done.

Getting dressed IMMEDIATELY after a round. Nothing says 'I want you gone' more blatant than this. It also says, 'I never want to see you again'. Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

What he said plus:

I got it half way in and she says "oooh my god your so good oh oh oh, it's so big"

Iw as just wondering, because I'm not a clock watcher (and dont want to be) by any means, and I don't know what to say if i CAN TELL that he is taking his sweet time to get the most bang 4 his buck so to speak.

Clock watching is a big nono....I have never done it and I never will,but thats just me. But guys going over on purpose is not cool either. I enjoy a relaxed non rushed time its more fun that way,

Clock watching is a big nono....I have never done it and I never will,but thats just me. But guys going over on purpose is not cool either. I enjoy a relaxed non rushed time its more fun that way, Originally Posted by AllisonofHouston

I couldn't agree more!

I agree with this thread. Here's my opinion:

From the guy's point of view, she should (a) not rush into things too quickly unless he wants to, (b) don't watch the clock or at least don't let him see or sense you doing that, (c) don't obviously fake arousal immediately--a sign you want to finish the session quickly, and (d) don't urge him to cum.

And I say, if he has paid for 60 minutes, then even if you finish early, let him stay for the full time if he wants to. Act like you enjoy talking with him at the end.

If the sex isn't over with at 60 minutes, let the session wind down as naturally as possible, and don't seem impatient while he is taking a reasonable time to clean up afterwards. Those last few minutes can also go along way towards telling each of them if they ever want to see the other again.

Skipp +1

The coolest thing I have experienced is when a provider had a 1 hour long playlist on her laptop playing - she started it when i walked in the door - when the music ended, it was a nice reminder that the time is over... Not a single clock in the room.

One hour is one hour. If the Hobbyist is done with the major item in 35 minutes, and simply wishes to sit and talk, well, then talk to him.

If you feel like you never want to see him again, and are willing to fade the heat in the Review he is sure to write, then by all means tell him to get the hell out.

Ladies, you are in a service industry. You do not have a monopoly on the product you are selling. So, how good the Hobbyist feels when he leaves is a very big part of whether you have done a good job.

Most of the Ladies who have been doing this for a while understand this. They are well aware what men are really looking for, and they hone their skills to meet these requirements.