What's The Difference???

OK, a Newbie here with a question I haven't been able to find the answer to. I started out wanting to check off one item on my bucket list and enjoyed myself and the provider so much that I've checked it off several times now and I'm hooked. Looks like I have a new hobby...
Anyway, I read about BBBJ, CBJ, CFS, BBFS, and DATY and want to be relatively safe. BBFS is a definite no for me as that seems to be the overwhelming opinion of most hobbyists. I haven't had a BBBJ yet and only came within smelling distance for DATY (a very nice smell!)
I have an appointment coming up this week-end and the provider offers DATY as well as BBBJ. I'm not as interested in BBBJ as I am DATY because I'm afraid the BB part of the BJ would trip my trigger too quickly. I do want to experience DATY and hopefully pleasuring the lady.
Here's the question: If BBFS is too dangerous and a way to contract HIV, etc., what's the difference with DATY?

There's risk in this hobby, most of it is very easily mitigated through no BBFS but some remains. Its up to you what you are comfortable with.

DATY there's a herpes risk

BBBJ there's herpes, clap, syphilis, chlamydia risk

Oral is SAFER not safe, and as always the risk of a man contracting is less than for a woman that's just how it works with less mucosal tissue.

Look at this chart and do your own research, you'll find that the incidence for oral transmission of these things is very low but not nonexistent. http://www.sfcityclinic.org/stdbasics/stdchart.asp

If you truly want the answer to your question, I suggest you look in a medical journal. Many opinions will say yes and no both ways. A lot of things you will hear here is personal preference.

You are going to run into 2 schools of thought here. First, there are the militant providers who demand everything be covered and will cite chapter and verse of numerous "medical studies" to back up their position to want to wrap themselves in saran wrap while having sex. Second, there are the realists who know that men like BBBJs and also like to DATY. These people realize that life itself is an inherent risk, and have determined they are willing to take some risk. I say dive in. Go for the DATY and BBBJ. I'm like you. I pop early, so usually, I start off with going down on her. I get her aroused and hopefully off. Then I ask her to return the favor by sucking me off. Then, rest a few minutes and dive in for rounds 2, 3 and 4.

I would only wish for rounds 2,3, and 4!! MSOG hasn't been in my vocabulary.
Thanks for the responses. I know what I'll be doing. Risk = Reward, and I'm looking for the reward with DATY.