For the MEN: How do you choose....?

When looking for a Provider that you want to spend time with, how do you choose, when there are so many posts up?

Any comments or examples are appreciated.

Plz delete or close as this was not finished and click submit w/o adding the poll answers.

I search the showcases based on whatever my fancy happens to be, and see who pops up. I read the showcases, read the reviews and make a few choices. So now, these are all providers that I would like to see. The final selection is bases upon location and donation.