Does anybody have any tricks or tips to make an orgasm more intense and last longer? My SO and I share our own tips with each other for a really pleasurable time for both of us.
For me, I've found a couple of ways. Lay down and relax EVERY muscle in your body.You'd be surprised how many muscles are flexed when you think you're relaxed, especially your neck and shoulder area. Right before you cum, relax every muscle in your body. While cumming don't tense up any muscle, keep them all relaxed. Concentrate on where the orgasm starts and let your mind follow it as it spreads like a ripple in a pond. Mine last longer.
Another way is to flex all your stomach muscles while holding your breath. You should start feeling blood rushing to your head and start feeling light headed. Time your orgasm right as you feel light headed. Don't take a breath or relax your stomach muscles until the orgasm is over. I've actually had two orgasms back to back doing this. I guess this a bit like erotic asphyxiation.
My SO has me stop several times right as she starts to cum. I guess she builds it up for one intense orgasm.
Just curious what everyone else does to get off harder...