Hobbying for dummies?

Anybody know where I can get a copy?

How is a newbie supposed to get established when the only "newbie friendly" provider that can be found in the area is not acceptable to the other girls as a reference provider.

Any tips would be much appreciated and feel free to pm. Also any newbie friendly ladies please also feel free to reach out.

I notice you are in NWA. I believe Ginger doll offers alternative screening. Like through your work or something.

Join https://www.preferred411.com/

Some of the new members make a visit to the Pink Doll House. They have their own screening. Daniella is newbie friendly and she visits NWA about once a month. Not sure if Jane Darling is newbie friendly or not but she is highly recommended by those who have seen her And as somebody mentioned Ginger sometimes will use different screening methods.

Any tips would be much appreciated and feel free to pm. Also any newbie friendly ladies please also feel free to reach out. Originally Posted by cato16

Hi Cato,

I had the same issues when starting out. My approach has always been as follows: reach out to the lady that you're actually interested in ultimately meeting. Explain your situation and start a dialogue. Remember to be respectful of their time and ask if there are any particular providers that might help them "approve" you or put a feather in your cap, so to speak.

Offer a way for them to contact you (I.e. Actually talk to you and hear your voice and interact with you on a semi-personal level). I feel as though a lot of ladies actually still use their gut instinct as a starting point. They still might need a reference, but a conversation goes a long way at time;s if you're honest and cordial, respectful, and charming doesn't hurt....

A few other things.
Don't be a dick!!!! On here or in your personal interaction with providers; even if the answers you receive aren't necessarily what you want to hear at the moment.

Be involved and active on the board. Your longer term presence is sometimes helpful and gives the ladies a sense of your character and how you interact with others.

Don't be a dick. Lol. I'm really not trying to be a dick by repeating this to you, nor an I attempting to suggest anything in regards to your actions; I did NOT go back and read any of your previous posts or research you in any way. I guess I'm just saying that the providers are ladies and deserved to be treated as such regardless of the situation in which you hope to meet them. I think you'll find some pretty intelligent, engaging, and amazing ladies on here.

Respect.

Hope this helps, and any criticism on my two cents here is appreciated and probably warranted, I'm just going off of my minimal experiences thus far. I hope I didn't offend anyone.

As was mentioned ask the lady if she will do some alternative screening..but be ready to give out info that may be somewhat intrusive.

P411 will help alot

Unfortunately paying for pussy shouldnt be as hard as its becoming but the bed is being made and now having to be layed in..

The whole point in hiring an escort is suppose to be in part for the ease of it all..however you do somewhat have to pay your dues so to speak

See a visitiny lady that is newbie friendly..go about it ass backwards and ask the lady u wanna see if she will except a reference from provider xyz..then you know whether "paying your dues" to see the newbie friendly provider will be worth it..

Side note..newbie friendly provider will now know u intend to use them as a stepping stone..so that might hinder you as well now

Contrary..u dont need to be on the boards with a presence..matter of fact most top ladies you wont see post alot nor hobbyist in this region..wayyyy more reputable trustworthy lurkers..providers who post alot like guys who posy alot because they know they will get seen..

Write reviews..it helps the community or don't...but you shouldnt have to worry about posting habits and such and sometimes its best to avoid the boards..write reviews join p411 and agree to alternative screening then fuck with wasting abunch of time trying to establish yourself and see girls you might not wanna see otherwise

My opinion

Thanks for the feedback, I will take note and we'll see how it goes.