Romance in the Hobby

I doubt I'd ever fall head over heels for a Provider but I never say impossible regarding anyting. However, when your scheduled appointment rolls around is there time to inject a bit of romance in order to help spice up a session? When "getting lucky" is a sure thing within the allotted time is a sure thing does it matter? Ladies, would your mind be in a more sensuous place if a 'mood' was offered by your guest? What sort of 'actions" can assist with that mood?

P.S. Saying "A stack of Benjamins is the only mood setter required" isn't what I'm asking.

A little box of chocolates or a bottle of wine to share, candlelight, soft music and lingerie..........

Tex,

I think the Benjamins are the key, although if you have a special lady, it wouldn't hurt to see them smile with a thoughtful gift.

I doubt I'd ever fall head over heels for a Provider but I never say impossible regarding anyting. However, when your scheduled appointment rolls around is there time to inject a bit of romance in order to help spice up a session? When "getting lucky" is a sure thing within the allotted time is a sure thing does it matter? Ladies, would your mind be in a more sensuous place if a 'mood' was offered by your guest? What sort of 'actions" can assist with that mood?

P.S. Saying "A stack of Benjamins is the only mood setter required" isn't what I'm asking. Originally Posted by txcwby6

If you have an ATF and you want the illusion of a real romance, listen to her during the pre and post session and find out what she does in her spare time. Does she listen to music (iTunes gift card), read (amazon gift card or a book you think she would like), work out a lot (spa gift card for a nice massage).

It doesn't need to be (and shouldn't) expensive, after all you are probably handing over an envelop with enough cash so she can buy herself something really nice. It is the thought that counts and I have found generally puts you at the topof the list when requesting an appointment.

Just remember, she is only your GF in 60 minute increments.

How to spice up the session? Hmmm...

My guess would be show up on time, be exceptionally clean and well groomed, be respectful, passionate and considerate, treat the lady like a human being and not a possession, don't overstay your welcome and leave the appropriate donation. If you have an idea of what the lady likes, a simple gesture of a small gift is surely appreciated too.

Sometimes common sense, courtesy and consideration go further than anything you can buy....

But then again, what do I know?

tony, you are right on

How to spice up the session? Hmmm...

My guess would be show up on time, be exceptionally clean and well groomed, be respectful, passionate and considerate, treat the lady like a human being and not a possession, don't overstay your welcome and leave the appropriate donation. If you have an idea of what the lady likes, a simple gesture of a small gift is surely appreciated too.

Sometimes common sense, courtesy and consideration go further than anything you can buy....

But then again, what do I know? Originally Posted by Tony Patella

Very Correct, well said my friend.

The best thing a gentleman can do for me to ensure romance, is have a sense of humor! Our everyday lives are depressing enough.........humor brings out the best in people, even if it's an hour at a time!

I always try to take a small something to say thanks for scheduling with me. It's a "thought" thing more than anything else.

A talented tongue probably wouldn't hurt either. lol

You said a mouthful, angel! LOL!

While gifts we can share together such as champagne, lingerie, book of erotica, ect are fun, there are less tangible things that can go a long way to set a romantic mood. Besides the basics such as being respectful and well showered, your attitude towards the lady help create an air of sensuality as well. Treat her like a girlfriend, not a sex doll. Express your interest in an articulate way, not just physical. Stimulating conversation & pillow talk between rounds can do alot to increase comfort levels and chemisty. You might have alot in common! Use lots of eye contact, flirt, make out like your in highschool. Lots of kissing on the lips and neck, lots of foreplay, mutual satisfaction is important, maybe even give or exchange massages.

I'm always prepared with sexy lingerie, candles, soft music, ect but I firmly believe the atmosphere follows the attitude, seduction all begins in the mind.

xoxo Sophie

If I'm seeing someone for the second or third time, I always like to try different things to spice up the session. I think doing the exact same thing the exact same way over and over again gets boring. If the lady and I have built a mutual trust in each other, I like to put a blindfold on her and eat strawberries and other types of fruit off her body. Or buy some chocolate paint, paint each others' bodies, and then lick it off. Re-create some famous movie scenes or put your own twist to it. Those types of sessions are always the most fun and memorable. And she'll most likely remember it years down the road as well, especially if she's never experienced anything like that before.

Just don't try it for a first time meeting. You need to develop a level of comfort and trust first.

I provide a true GFE so with that my mood cant just be set on sex,I like to get to know the client I am with.I have to say I always want sex but some times its better for the client to want to hear how their day is going and try to make it better for them.To set my mood I enjoy candles,and candys for my incall!