Some one posted in another thread about looking for a Dom, some points on how to find one and closed by saying something to the effect of - then you have found one for however long the donation lasts.....that really summed it up well for me.
I guess if you established an ongoing thing with one like minded provider, you could get to know her over time, but I would expect that communication between appointments would still be limited. Maybe with a few exceptions
Sure you can find a few providers to have kinky sex with. Pics, bondage, spanking, rough sex, WS, etc. One person can be dominant during those activities, but there is more to D/s than kinky sex for an hour or 2 at a time. Heck, in a good scene you are still in foreplay mode at the 2 hour mark
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I have always struggled with how the two mesh, it seems to mesh well for some, so I thought I would ask.