Remeber your 1st bad Backpage experience??

Crooks & Castles's Avatar
All of us who hobby here have always went through Backpage at least once, and maybe that 1st bad experience made you stop looking on there from then on. What was your 1st bad experience from BP?

Mine was this petite Latina female that I saw at a motel 6 off NW HWY and HWY 35. This was years ago but I still remember it. I pull up, get the room number, go in thinking she was alone but was in the room with another female who I guess was a friend. The girl I went to go see asked if it was cool that her friend just hang out in the restroom with the door shut. I was caught off guard and just went with it. Laid my donation down: $140, got on the bed, fooled around with her, she HJ me as I played with her kitty for a while, but then tried to upsell me for FS. I said hell no, took the loss and just left. She looked nothing like the pic on BP, it was one of my first times using BP so I didn't know if I should leave before we started.

That's my story.
My first bad BP experience was with a lady in N Dallas and was in response to a Body Rub ad. When I got there I wanted to leave the second I walked in the door. I actually got on the table and she started to rub me. I got up after 5 minutes and told her I had to leave and that I needed to be somewhere else and that I shouldn't have made the appt in the first place. I paid her the full amount because I felt sorry for her after hearing her tell me her life story in the 5 minutes I stayed. I just chalked it up as a lesson learned and moved forward from there.
WalkerTx's Avatar
Mine was in N Ft Worth for a massage...she told me to get comfortable on the table and I noticed there wasn't a towel to use for cover, which was fine with me. She leaves while I undress for a few minutes.

She comes back in the room, goes apesh*t and tells me to get out now and she said that she had already reported my license plate. By the way, I'm sure this sounds familiar to a few of you...it shook me up a bit, but didn't stop me from finding a few other willing ladies..
Chung Tran's Avatar
I have not used backpage, because of this story that happened to my friends:

they phoned a lady to come to one of their apartments, they agreed on $100 each, but no specific activities were agreed beforehand. the lady shows up, comes to the door, her Pimp stays in the car... both my friends pay upfront, all 3 of them strip, and the lady tells them the $100 is her appearance fee, much more is required to do anything sexual.

my friends ended up jacking off simultaneously, while staring at her nude body... and it was over.

I shudder just thinking about this... not only because of the escort, but my friends' decision to jack-off together! I understand cutting your loss in that situation but My God, I would have kept my pants on!
Crooks & Castles's Avatar
She comes back in the room, goes apesh*t and tells me to get out now and she said that she had already reported my license plate. By the way, I'm sure this sounds familiar to a few of you...it shook me up a bit, but didn't stop me from finding a few other willing ladies.. Originally Posted by WalkerTx
Just out of nowhere she started yelling? Didnt yel why? Haha apeshiet!
my friends ended up jacking off simultaneously, while staring at her nude body... and it was over! Originally Posted by Chung Tran
Hahaha wow! What an ending!
Let me see,,,,,,,, There was one where the girl with the 10 body and -20 face ( didn't show it in the ad) , there was the one with the big cold sore on her lip,... every one has seen the stinky pussy one ,,,,,, the one where the cop busted in and threw us out of the room,,,,,, the one that took off her clothes and appeared to have had a baby a few days earlier ( not shown in the ad ) I can't remember which one came first.

Usually I don't get disappointed because I don't pay or expect much.

I wont pay $100 or more unless she has been heavily reviewed or I have seen her before. other wise the odds are too high against getting your money's worth./

But over all my BP success rate is about 97%
Crooks & Castles's Avatar
Let me see,,,,,,,, There was one where the girl with the 10 body and -20 face ( didn't show it in the ad) , there was the one with the big cold sore on her lip,... every one has seen the stinky pussy one ,,,,,, the one where the cop busted in and threw us out of the room,,,,,, the one that took off her clothes and appeared to have had a baby a few days earlier ( not shown in the ad ) I can't remember which one came first.

Usually I don't get disappointed because I don't pay or expect much.

I wont pay $100 or more unless she has been heavily reviewed or I have seen her before. other wise the odds are too high against getting your money's worth./

But over all my BP success rate is about 97% Originally Posted by Hidaka
Damn to the cop scenario and recent baby times, haha. What did the cop say?

I had luck with 1 mixed nationality female and saw her 2 additional times. She got on eccie for a while but disappeared.
One of my really bad BP experience it was a Sunday afternoon. I had the guy that was giving out fake Obama money come see me and with a nice envelope with Taylor written on the outside. I had just started and did not know shit about escorting and did not have really anyone to help me. I look back and think I was lucky did not get killed or beat but the sex was good. I moved locations the next week or two and the guy showed up at my place again. I had changed my name to Truly Passion and there he was with the envelope again. He realized it was me and ran off. I was debating what I was going to do to him.
One of my really bad BP experience it was a Sunday afternoon. I had the guy that was giving out fake Obama money come see me and with a nice envelope with Taylor written on the outside. I had just started and did not know shit about escorting and did not have really anyone to help me. I look back and think I was lucky did not get killed or beat but the sex was good. I moved locations the next week or two and the guy showed up at my place again. I had changed my name to Truly Passion and there he was with the envelope again. He realized it was me and ran off. I was debating what I was going to do to him. Originally Posted by Truly Passion
Fake Obama money? Lol Now that's something different!
Never had a bad BP experience. There are good ladies on BP, all you have to do is verify with Eccie. Do not do that and you are looking for trouble.
redman1501's Avatar
Well, I managed to bypass backpage. I started out browsing about on Craigslist and I noticed any add that sounded slightly real got flagged immediately so I posted an add and asked the people who were being flagged what all was up and got flagged fairly quickly myself but a few people replied and one said I should try eccie because Craigslist was pointless and eccie was a lot safer. So I came here, made an account, forgot about it for awhile and then came back and started reading stuff and no one really had anything nice to say about backpage so I skipped that and so my hobbying began here.
mm-good's Avatar
Did the paper version of BP before finding it inline.
Did some massage places with L 1 finish .
Best was finding a RMT talk slender mild who's hubby was in jail. Great massage , pretty lady (late 20'd) and a BBBJNQNS finish for 160 - stayed with her till I found ASPD/P411
bmoore's Avatar
I had just turned 18 when I had my first bad BP experience. I was living at my parents' house, and they decided to go to Vegas for a week without me.
So, my friend came over and we decided to use BP in Austin, which was in the back of the Chronicle. We saw an ad and called the number to arrange for the girl to come over. She described herself as hispanic, attractive, nice measurements, etc.
About an hour later, a rather large blonde that looked like she just left the trailer park showed up. She knocked on the door, and we looked through the peephole to find this hot mess standing on the porch. My friend and I both said, "Hell no!"
So what's this girl do? She steals the flower pot from the front porch. Who does that?!? I haven't used BP since. That was about 15 years ago.
A few years later, I found ASPD then here. I haven't been happier, and don't even bother with BP at all.
To this day we still joke about the girl that stole the flower pot. I remember my step mother asking me what happened to it. All I could say was I didn't know. I mean, who would mess with a flower pot?
Used BP quite a bit over the years (not all the time like crazy high volume stuff maybe once a month or so or less, every few months), never knew about eccie and that was my only go to place, suprisingly I've never had a bad experience in the sense of drama or ncns. Though I never had any great experiences, never msog (and I finish quick), and always bait and switch. Other than that I guess I was lucky from the stories I've heard here, besides pretty much feeling ripped off for the short encounters because it was never really "one hour" of time it was done when I finished. Anyway, I'm never going back to BP unless they are somebody from here that I can verify, check reviews etc.

I actually ended up finding eccie from googling a BP provider because I was getting tired of bait/switch wanted to see if I could find other ads of her, and ended up finding this site with a review for her, have stuck to this site since then.
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I had just turned 18 when I had my first bad BP experience. I was living at my parents' house, and they decided to go to Vegas for a week without me.
So, my friend came over and we decided to use BP in Austin, which was in the back of the Chronicle. We saw an ad and called the number to arrange for the girl to come over. She described herself as hispanic, attractive, nice measurements, etc.
About an hour later, a rather large blonde that looked like she just left the trailer park showed up. She knocked on the door, and we looked through the peephole to find this hot mess standing on the porch. My friend and I both said, "Hell no!"
So what's this girl do? She steals the flower pot from the front porch. Who does that?!? I haven't used BP since. That was about 15 years ago.
A few years later, I found ASPD then here. I haven't been happier, and don't even bother with BP at all.
To this day we still joke about the girl that stole the flower pot. I remember my step mother asking me what happened to it. All I could say was I didn't know. I mean, who would mess with a flower pot? Originally Posted by bmoore
Damn she went 'Risky Business' on you without you even getting laid by the Hot Hooker, THAT SUCKS !!...Good story though and another reason not to allow outcall to my home, which I never do.

This thread should be moved to the Co-Ed Forum