Hello to my fellow horn-dogs, and to the angels we adore,
I had a frustrating experience today. I was trying to set up a tryst with an adorable little thing who visits KC periodically, and she was unsatisfied with my references. Part of the problem was that she herself had incorrectly read the date of service on one of my ECCIE reviews (it was a 2014 review and she misread it as 2015)...but this reference thing is an issue I have run across once or twice before. So what, exactly, is the best way to convince a new girl you're for real? What is the best reference procedure?
I'm not exactly a newbie to this venerable hobby, but I'm not a seasoned pro either. I usually have no problem making an appointment with a girl--if she wants references I send her a few provider names and phone numbers, or I point her toward my 6 ECCIE reviews. But occasionally, such as today, I run into a girl who wants...I don't know what she wants. Something more. A note from my doctor? A presidential citation?
So what exactly is the "reference process"? Is it totally random, up to each girl? Do providers actually call the providers whose names you give them? Do ECCIE reviews convince a girl you're for real and not, you know, trouble? Is it a good idea to join P411? I'm open to suggestions here, especially from the ladies reading this. How do I get my ducks in a row so that I don't again find myself...sitting here frustrated, like I am right now? (Grrrrrr....)
Thanks!