Confused newby

Is there anywhere that lists what all the abreviations mean? Also, how do I get references as a client when starting, if it takes references before meeting a provider?
I know I found a list of the what the letters stood for several years ago, but I don't know where I searched for it now.

To get started, look for providers that are newbie friendly, and be prepared to give a little more information for screening. Another option that helps, especially once you get going is to join P411. There are lots of trust worthy traveling ladies that only show on P411 and don't advertise anyplace else.

I stay away from Back Page ( BP ) except to look at a few pictures.

Good luck
https://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=8752

The Urban Dictionary is also a good source. Google can also be your friend.