- Nowiknow
- 06-02-2021, 03:04 PM
A massage tht is legit with the maybe of extras? And by extra, just a hj. Thanks and sorry if this is the wrong forum🤷♂️
- paintedbynumbers
- 06-02-2021, 04:47 PM
the best way is to gain membership so that you can read the reviews in the AMP section.
Second best way is to check out Thai Bridgeville or maybe Moonlight in Heidelberg. Good luck and be safe.
Second best way is to check out Thai Bridgeville or maybe Moonlight in Heidelberg. Good luck and be safe.
- Nowiknow
- 06-02-2021, 05:24 PM
Thank you!
- berryberry
- 06-02-2021, 05:55 PM
- laserface
- 06-03-2021, 03:17 AM
When I first saw this post, I was assuming it was asking about finding an actual LMT who's open to doing a happy ending (or perhaps more...), I hadn't really considered AMPs since I've never really thought of them as "legit" massage. So, if that's more what you're looking for...
Yes, it does happen from time to time. It's not easy to find. I suspect the most reliable way to find such a thing is by personal referral from another "satisfied" client. This may be hard to come by, because a client who's seeing an LMT who's open to extras is probably not going to mention it unless the client is aware that the masseuse is open to doing such things with other clients (like if the masseuse has specifically told the client something like "if you enjoy the service I provide, feel free to refer your friends"), and even then you'll probably only get such a referral from someone who knows you and trusts you, because the client won't want to so anything to potentially mess up their own deal.
Aside from that, the best strategy I can think of is to start seeing an LMT that you might be interested in obtaining such services from, building a relationship with her as a regular, and seeing what happens. In general, if you're seeing an LMT looking for extras, you have to realize that the default answer in most cases is going to be "no" - even if they otherwise wouldn't mind, they can't just come out and offer extras to clients they don't know well and trust, because they'd be at risk of losing their license (and thus not being able to work at legit spas or private practice anywhere in PA). So it's not going to happen unless you're known and trusted (or referred by someone she knows and trusts). You really can't do the typical AMP strategy of "let your hands wander and see what happens" because that's just rude in this scenario, given that most LMTs don't provide any extras - it is likely to just piss her off, and may get you asked to leave. (Honestly, even at an AMP, I personally think this is pretty rude too, but at least girls at AMPs generally expect it and tolerate it to some extent - legit LMTs may sort of "expect" it as well because they know they'll occasionally get clients who try to push boundaries, but they may be a lot less willing to tolerate it...) You just have to be chill, and wait to see if the masseuse will offer it herself.
If you are really hoping for extras from some specific LMT that you don't otherwise have an "in" with, you're probably just going to have to bite the bullet and invest in a few sessions over a period of a couple of months just to build up trust. Then on maybe the third or fourth visit, wait until she has you flip over, then just lay back, relax, and let yourself get an erection. Worst case, the masseuse will just ignore it (as legit masseuses are generally trained to do); if it's raised as a topic of conversation, you have the plausible deniability of just saying something like, "Sorry, I'm just so comfortable with you that I guess it's developed a mind of it's own", or something like that. Best case, she may offer "I can do something about that for you, if you like", or some such... But it totally needs to be her own idea.
If that doesn't produce any results, probably the best strategy is to move on and try again with a different masseuse, walking away with the consolation prize that at least you probably got some decent massages.
Or, you could just go to an AMP ... since trying to do this with a legit LMT is a shot in the dark that is much less likely to produce the desired outcome than not.
Yes, it does happen from time to time. It's not easy to find. I suspect the most reliable way to find such a thing is by personal referral from another "satisfied" client. This may be hard to come by, because a client who's seeing an LMT who's open to extras is probably not going to mention it unless the client is aware that the masseuse is open to doing such things with other clients (like if the masseuse has specifically told the client something like "if you enjoy the service I provide, feel free to refer your friends"), and even then you'll probably only get such a referral from someone who knows you and trusts you, because the client won't want to so anything to potentially mess up their own deal.
Aside from that, the best strategy I can think of is to start seeing an LMT that you might be interested in obtaining such services from, building a relationship with her as a regular, and seeing what happens. In general, if you're seeing an LMT looking for extras, you have to realize that the default answer in most cases is going to be "no" - even if they otherwise wouldn't mind, they can't just come out and offer extras to clients they don't know well and trust, because they'd be at risk of losing their license (and thus not being able to work at legit spas or private practice anywhere in PA). So it's not going to happen unless you're known and trusted (or referred by someone she knows and trusts). You really can't do the typical AMP strategy of "let your hands wander and see what happens" because that's just rude in this scenario, given that most LMTs don't provide any extras - it is likely to just piss her off, and may get you asked to leave. (Honestly, even at an AMP, I personally think this is pretty rude too, but at least girls at AMPs generally expect it and tolerate it to some extent - legit LMTs may sort of "expect" it as well because they know they'll occasionally get clients who try to push boundaries, but they may be a lot less willing to tolerate it...) You just have to be chill, and wait to see if the masseuse will offer it herself.
If you are really hoping for extras from some specific LMT that you don't otherwise have an "in" with, you're probably just going to have to bite the bullet and invest in a few sessions over a period of a couple of months just to build up trust. Then on maybe the third or fourth visit, wait until she has you flip over, then just lay back, relax, and let yourself get an erection. Worst case, the masseuse will just ignore it (as legit masseuses are generally trained to do); if it's raised as a topic of conversation, you have the plausible deniability of just saying something like, "Sorry, I'm just so comfortable with you that I guess it's developed a mind of it's own", or something like that. Best case, she may offer "I can do something about that for you, if you like", or some such... But it totally needs to be her own idea.
If that doesn't produce any results, probably the best strategy is to move on and try again with a different masseuse, walking away with the consolation prize that at least you probably got some decent massages.
Or, you could just go to an AMP ... since trying to do this with a legit LMT is a shot in the dark that is much less likely to produce the desired outcome than not.
- Don Stephens
- 06-03-2021, 08:40 AM
Good advice LaserFace. Most important to remember that the Civvie world doesn't necessarily see things in Hobbyworld terms - so be cautious and respectful if looking for extras
- AMPluvr
- 06-03-2021, 12:05 PM
I'm inspired by this thread to abstain from sexual activity for a week and then check out a LMT just to see what happens when I turn over with a pitched tent.
- laserface
- 06-03-2021, 06:51 PM
Part of my point is that there are an awful lot of people out there who think all or almost all legit massage therapy - particularly involving female therapists who have male clients - is just a front for sex work. Which of course is not even close to true, and is the source of much consternation from female MTs, a great many of whom have numerous tales of men making appointments with them, assuming that their massage surely had to include a happy ending (if not more)...
Of course, this misconception applies to more than just clients. I have a friend who is absolutely convinced that any massage establishment that has male clients (particularly older male clients) is just a thinly disguised brothel. She used to (and possibly still does...) camp out across the street from a legit (as far as I know...) spa near her house in Mt. Lebanon, watching for any men that went inside - whereupon she would write down the client's license plate number and call the police to report it as prostitution activity. And then she'd get all upset because she felt the police were treating her like a crackpot - but that didn't stop her from calling the plate number in every single time she saw a male go inside... I haven't talked to her in a while, but for all I know, she still does this...
Of course, this misconception applies to more than just clients. I have a friend who is absolutely convinced that any massage establishment that has male clients (particularly older male clients) is just a thinly disguised brothel. She used to (and possibly still does...) camp out across the street from a legit (as far as I know...) spa near her house in Mt. Lebanon, watching for any men that went inside - whereupon she would write down the client's license plate number and call the police to report it as prostitution activity. And then she'd get all upset because she felt the police were treating her like a crackpot - but that didn't stop her from calling the plate number in every single time she saw a male go inside... I haven't talked to her in a while, but for all I know, she still does this...
- paintedbynumbers
- 06-03-2021, 07:50 PM
LOL at your friend. The police would treat her like a crackpot because if they were called and found that it was a legit massage it would be a waste of their time. If she was calling the police on the specific male based off of a license plate the male could turn around and go after her for harassment. Sounds like she has way too much time on her hands. Don't let her see this site!!!
- Nowiknow
- 06-04-2021, 07:04 AM
Thank you laserface, you nailed it, that is exactly what I'm looking for. Not an amp, but somewhere more legit. I really appreciate it.
- onawbtngr546
- 06-04-2021, 07:07 AM
Last year before the pandemic I was going to a place near Waterworks that looked like an AMP but there wasn't anything extra offered.. but the lady did a real good massage.
I went back after things reopened and there was a new lady there, and there was a leaky roof... and extras were offered but the massage wasn't good, so I didn't go back.
I went back after things reopened and there was a new lady there, and there was a leaky roof... and extras were offered but the massage wasn't good, so I didn't go back.
- yinzerpgh
- 06-05-2021, 07:40 AM
I had a fantastic massage therapist years ago until carpel tunnel got the best of her. There is NO WAY that I would have EVER propositioned her. Even if I pitched a tent during the flip!
(FWIW, I would have loved to smash her, but losing a great massage therapist was a risk I was not willing to take.)
(FWIW, I would have loved to smash her, but losing a great massage therapist was a risk I was not willing to take.)
- Don Stephens
- 06-05-2021, 11:01 AM
Had a similar experience as described by Yinzer and agree with his perspective
- swtslnce
- 06-05-2021, 10:59 PM
After a lot of years, I have finally found and have been going to two different female massage therapists who are both great in their own right and fit my needs almost perfect.
Through the course of some physical injuries and sometimes just needing to let go and relax, I would not jeopardize either professional working relationships with a stunt like that. Like stated, good legitimate massage therapists are not that easy to find.
I understand there is a "fantasy" factor but their profession and lively hood relies on there licensing. That also includes paying for schooling, continuing education, insurance, etc. I'm not saying it couldn't happen but please guys, don't go into it thinking there's something when there's nothing.
Through the course of some physical injuries and sometimes just needing to let go and relax, I would not jeopardize either professional working relationships with a stunt like that. Like stated, good legitimate massage therapists are not that easy to find.
I understand there is a "fantasy" factor but their profession and lively hood relies on there licensing. That also includes paying for schooling, continuing education, insurance, etc. I'm not saying it couldn't happen but please guys, don't go into it thinking there's something when there's nothing.
- eyecu2
- 06-07-2021, 04:10 PM
Aww you guys gotta be a little braver. I joke around a good bit and have found LMTs are approachable in many cases. I usually talk about needing a good massage, being single too long..., Wishing my last girlfriend had mad skills like her...., And then ask them if anyone asked for more ...and see what they say. If they don't flinch, I say, I know I can keep a secret ...can you?? Then they are either game or they decline. Either way it usually doesn't make things weird. Especially if they are cute, muscular or they seem a little game. I also ask them if they mind me being a little heavy or whatever...just get em talking. No talking....no extras. That said, I'm an amp fan most days