i respect your opinion but every situation is different. the relationship i had with the girl that underwent hormone therapy was very erotic and sexual. i cant describe it as a deep personal connection. one day we were talking about "guilty pleasure fetishes" and i mentioned lactation. long story short, its my birthday, shes aggressively riding me and says "i have a surprise for you watch this". she starts working her titties and milk squirts out. i was beside myself. I had alot of fun for a couple months or so then they dried up. little to no anr/abf, the milk was mainly used during sex/play (wasted on the sheets, used for lube, and alotta bizarre shit im never going to disclose)
Originally Posted by mastablasta
True but you were with a SB, totally different with a civie girl, SB usually aren't around only because they like you. and as you said not a deep personal connection and it wasn't a ABF/ANR, she was fufilling her end of the SB arrangement, nothing wrong with that.
I was describing what to expect if you were to go the true ABF/ANR route. and the majority of the time they aren't lactating when you meet them, also, they aren't really into it for just sex play, it for you to drink it as nourishment and bonding.
Now you can have the same with a civie girl, but it does carry a lot more emotional wear.
If you just want to have milk play get a lactating escort or hire a lactating model and shoot some homemade lactating porn, (finding a lactating model isn't hard, but you most likely won't get any extras from alot of them) it will save you a lot of time/effort.