so a total newbie to the hobby. of course i see that one should seek providers with good reviews . and i see those providers want the hobbiest to be verified. and i see there are a lot of places to join for that. but you are still not verified until a provider writes a review that you are a safe hobbiest and not some sort of ax murderer. so fr a married hobbiest that needs max discretion how does one protect you identity yet provide the provider what they need to feel safe. any suggestion for safe cell phone also. just have visions of someone calling my home. married and want and need to stay that way but little if any sex at home so looking into the hobby
Originally Posted by justforshsfl
You start by doing your due diligence. There hundreds of threads on this subject. Make the Search tab your friend. Or go back to downloading porn.