Why no joy for African-American Men?

Seems like a lot of providers won't see African-American men?

Why is that?

There is a huge thread about it over on the main board...

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600

There is a huge thread about it over on the main board...

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=315600 Originally Posted by JonSnow

Yeah, I know.

But I thought I'd bring it up here, since there's not so much activity lately.

Would anyone here have a problem having an appointment with a provider right after a client with the BBC?

Is it really not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean?

Maybe we need a KC BBFS thread...

You might be able to tell by looking at me, but both of my parents are caucasian. That being said I almost always avoid anyone who says they won't see black men. Only because that phrase, to me, means they've got management that's probably pretty amateur. And I'm not in this to truck with amateurs.

CaptainKaos, good point about the girls maybe having management.
I think its really silly when I hear some girls wont see AA because of the way they present themselves. I have found NOTHING but chill, easy going, respectable, quiet AA guys in the business. If you are looking for a random lay on backpage or something, I can see you running into AA's that can present themselves the way they may 'imagine'.
Never EVER had a problem with a AA client. But hey, to each their own! Only do what you are comfortable with.

+1

CaptainKaos, good point about the girls maybe having management.
I think its really silly when I hear some girls wont see AA because of the way they present themselves. I have found NOTHING but chill, easy going, respectable, quiet AA guys in the business. If you are looking for a random lay on backpage or something, I can see you running into AA's that can present themselves the way they may 'imagine'.
Never EVER had a problem with a AA client. But hey, to each their own! Only do what you are comfortable with. Originally Posted by Autumnkc

New month, so I guess it's time to address it once again.

It's personal preference, and beyond that, the reasons are nobody's business.

I have been seeing an escort weekly for 6+ years. She has also been a dancer. She is white and dates almost exclusively AA men (and most of her girlfriends are AA) but will not see one as a client. She has no pimp. She says many women just prefer not to see AA men and many escorts do have a pimp. But her reason is that there is a greater potential for drama with an AA man and she won't put up with it.

I was curious about this so I asked her.

You know Noah, glad you brought up this topic. Obviously there is no excuse for this type of behavior in 2013. This is most certainly another example the hidden racisim that is rampant in this country. As you alluded too it is the fear of the black mans enormous penis and his sexual prowless that has the white man shying away from the brave and extremely pliable vagina's owned by race traitors who serve the black man. So obviously providers have learned to shy away from the black man in order to remain popular among the men of the superior race. Well I for one think the time for this blantant descrimination has come to an end. I am extremely suprized that the champions of the blackmans rights Big Al Sharpton and Jesse "the swinging stick" Jackson have not taken up the cause to force equal service so lets take up the chant "Iam large, Iam black, i'll split you open to your crack". Come on stand up and fight, put on your hoodies, grab some skittles and lets gets some damn media attention on this nasty and wrong denial of services and blatant descrimination to a large voting block. PEACE

Who cares...... if a provider says no AA, then move on to the next.
The reasons are nobodies business but the provider.

Discrimination has reversed against the whites in the past 10 years and has accelerated greatly since O has been prez...

You know Noah, glad you brought up this topic. Obviously there is no excuse for this type of behavior in 2013. This is most certainly another example the hidden racisim that is rampant in this country. As you alluded too it is the fear of the black mans enormous penis and his sexual prowless that has the white man shying away from the brave and extremely pliable vagina's owned by race traitors who serve the black man. So obviously providers have learned to shy away from the black man in order to remain popular among the men of the superior race. Well I for one think the time for this blantant descrimination has come to an end. I am extremely suprized that the champions of the blackmans rights Big Al Sharpton and Jesse "the swinging stick" Jackson have not taken up the cause to force equal service so lets take up the chant "Iam large, Iam black, i'll split you open to your crack". Come on stand up and fight, put on your hoodies, grab some skittles and lets gets some damn media attention on this nasty and wrong denial of services and blatant descrimination to a large voting block. PEACE Originally Posted by dirty dog

Agree with Dirty dog and his sentiments. Unfortunately we are still a very racist society and on the hobby side a significant% of girls are racist. their excuses are very lame..

I'm always confused when I read no AA males too. As long as you screen it shouldn't matter. I would just move on..

Yeah, there is NO way I would ever see an AA man in the hobby! To me, there is absolutely nothing attractive about them. However, to be perfectly honest, I feel pretty much the same way about Irish men. italian men and Jewish men are also on my list of those I would see in this hobby. Oh yeah, and I also forgot to mention Hispanic men- also a no-go for me. In fact, I would not see ANY men in this hobby! I guess that I am just sexist!

Now, AA women- I have seen those. Same for Irish and Jewish women, too.so, I guess I am not really racist, but I AM being sexist!!

Charlie

I'm always confused when I read no AA males too. As long as you screen it shouldn't matter. I would just move on.. Originally Posted by 8Eve

Agreed. I love playing, no matter the color of the individual! If I screen and feel confident in my screening, then I will have nothing to worry about.