Hello all, let me just start by introducing myself as MISS2868!
There are a couple of things that have been lingering in my mind for a while now that I think need to be shared with the rest of the Hobby world, both for guys and gals. First thing is first, when a LADY sets her boundaries, respect them. Do not push and try to demean her or her dignity. It is my understanding that this does not go over well with too many of the hobby-ers. everyone loves a good deal or a great bargain. But a lady's dignity has no price. it is not something that can be bought, sold, bartered, or given away. though, and i speak for myself, i generally enjoy most of the hobby-ists i come to know. and most of them are generous and respectable and nice and clean. anywaysssss.....
POINT LIES HERE: BBBJ is something that is becoming a regular "side-dish" amongst many of the "generous, clean***(whatever that means) and respectful upscale men," of the hobby world, which most of you are, but who really knows????? You may be a doctor.....you may be a CEO or a multi-million dollar man of some company over seas......you may be a well respected man of the cloth.....OR you may be just some regular guy next door (which is fine)....point being it doesnt matter. BBBJ needs to be evaluated by all hobby-ers and providers.
HOWEVER, i hear all the time from "generous, respectable, upscale, clean*******(whatever that means)" men that , "oh, its okay, BBBJ with me is okay....im a doctor baby!" (again, whatever that means) BBBJ needs to be YMMV!
Stop pushing the boundaries, accept that a respectable, inteligent lady who is here for you wants to be safe. what more could you ask for??????? AGAIN, it should always be up to the provider and always YMMV.
YES! i have done it. many providers have. but not because they wanted to! this needs to change, for the protection of everybody. i know now that for my future rendezvous it will be YMMV! YMMV! YMMV! my discretion, on my own terms. Not to be preassured or bullied.
THANKS