What makes you want to see someone again (from a hobbyst and provider point of view).
Last night my good Hobbying buddy and I were at the local tavern. The question came up about what makes us want to see the same provider a few times. Both of us like variety so repeating is rather rare.
There is a long list of items that made us want to come back such as attractiveness, friendlieness, service, enthusiasm and a host of other things but we soon agreed that the majority of providers that we saw fell into that category.
We each thought of the handfull of ladies that we have seen more than once and then tried to recall what made us go back. After a bit of discussion we found a few common traits but one unusual one that we both liked.
After a good session you walk out wanting to see that provider again. But if you are like me and my friend then as soon as you are in the embrace of another woman your memories of the previous date are erased.
One of the things that was shared by all those that we have seen again was that each one sent us a text message, email, or voice mail telling me or him how much they enjoyed the session, how we made them feel special, or some other kind words such as, "thinking of you", that added to the general good post session feelings.
It did not take much but each of these ladies took the time to write something that made us feel like we were remembered. Whether they were honest or just good marketers it worked and we have repeated with them. I would encorage more providers to take the time to write a thankyou note.
What makes you want to go back?