Plan b's

So I'm just wondering how some providers take this.. As often as our plan A falls through is it OK to ask a provider to be a plan b. I can see the up and down side to this just wondering of a providers point of view?

In my opinion, that could come off as being a bit uncouth. I know gents in smaller cities have to reckon with a sparse selection of providers, but I can't really understand it when there's such an abundance of providers in this area. Besides that, there is the available now search function on sites like Eros and P411. P411 also has a pre-screen request option as a possible alternative.

Personally, if a dude inquired with me about being prepared just in case something didn't work out with someone he had a more pressing desire to see at the time, I'd likely ignore him. Not because of pettiness or jealousy, but because of my time being consumed and possibly wasted.

Amps are my "Plan B". They don't care.

Why even state she is a plan b? The providers do not give a sugar honey ice tea which plan they are....

Why even state she is a plan b? Originally Posted by plove35

Rofl seriously... who in their right mind says they're contacting someone as a plan b? Far too often people give out more information than is necessary, then wonder why shit gose wrong.

Some times plans B and C are the best. Thanks to the plan A's bailing, I've met some incredible Bs and Cs.

Try this: pick 26 Providers and assign each of them a letter of the alphabet. Think of the irony if you got all the way to Plan Z and she was...Ze...

Or...

How would you feel if you made an appointment and she said: "Sure but you're gonna be Plan B if the Plan A guy doesn't show up. Be ready!"

^^^^^ Exactly!

I would think it more beneficial to all parties involved to get pre screened with several ladies that offer short notice during your usual hobby time of day. Then if you get flaked on you can contact them one by one until you find one available.

So I'm just wondering how some providers take this..
===> good luck with attempting to glean any pattern in their thought processes!

As often as our plan A falls through is it OK to ask a provider to be a plan b. I can see the up and down side to this just wondering of a providers point of view? Originally Posted by C4rb1n

sure, it is "OK to ask a provider to be a plan b."
however, as previous folks have said, dont be surprised if you're treated like plan "never mind"!!

i learned a lonnnnnnng time ago to NEVER let a provider know that she is a backup plan or one of several under consideration.
no upside and lots of downsides.

I would think it more beneficial to all parties involved to get pre screened with several ladies that offer short notice during your usual hobby time of day. Then if you get flaked on you can contact them one by one until you find one available. Originally Posted by milfy2002

^^^^^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^^^^^
that's the ticket right there!

1. get pre-screened by several providers, but only if their incall location is in the area you will be in.

2. make an appt w/ "the" one. politely find out if the other providers are gonna be working that day. if they will be, let them know that if the stars align and work clears up [or whatever] that you might contact them that day. AND THANK THEM FOR THEIR TIME AND EFFORT SO FAR.

3. then, as milfy posted, if "the" one cancels or NCNS on you, contact the others and see if any of them can "squeeze" you in.

it would be nice if you did go see them as plan A in the future.

I would think it more beneficial to all parties involved to get pre screened with several ladies that offer short notice during your usual hobby time of day. Then if you get flaked on you can contact them one by one until you find one available.
Originally Posted by milfy2002

There's your answer, sir......couldn't have framed it up any better than Milfy's suggestion.
It's worked for me on several occasions. Sh*t happens to all of us no matter how well planned things are in advance. Best be prepared if and when your Plan A goes awry.

I choose to never be desperate enough to need a Plan B and I stay away from the Flakes that would cause me to need a Plan B.

Sometimes no one I WANT to see is available and in those cases if I can't find a PROVEN PROVIDER with credentials my Plan B in this case is Backpage.

Sometimes if everything falls thru for certain reasons, Jacking Off is Plan B or Fishing or Sailing or Scratching DogSlut the Labrador Between the Ears.

[QUOTE=Prolongus;1057901330How would you feel if you made an appointment and she said: "Sure but you're gonna be Plan B if the Plan A guy doesn't show up. Be ready!"[/QUOTE]

And we all know that never happens. Someone should start a list...

I've actually advertised, "Make me your Plan B!"

Why? First, it doesn't bother me plus, I'm generally available during regular business hours during the week, which is when it's often the time men get out and do what they do.

So sure. I don't find it insulting at all! And like someone mentioned above, sometimes you have a heck of a lot of fun being a Plan B!

Best,
Elisabeth