I moved back to the state recently, and decided to reach out to see about a visit. I reached out by text to a provider I had seen in December and clicked with. She had a new number that I got off of STG. Asked about setting up an appointment, she responded back about 20 minutes later agreeing to meet, I told her I was ready, and then she responded by saying she was in need of d*ck. I stopped responding immediately and decided to stay home instead.
This might have been a mistake on her part, but if I went over there would be a record of why I was there. No explicit conversation goes both way. Remember to protect yourselves. Until you get there you don't know who's on the other end of the phone.