This is exactly why you don’t use a guys handle or screen name as a verification technique. Any random visitor can visit this site and claim they are any of us. That being said, if using an eccie handle for verification then be sure to do it through messaging prior to meeting. That’s the way to do it. Originally Posted by DTicklerVery true. Ladies: if you are using board/user names as screening make sure they PM you on whatever site with the number they are contacting you from!