The case for the Overnight visit

I am a huge fan of overnight visits with providers - some people are intrigued and some are skeptical...

I travel a lot both domestically and internationally, spending a lot of time living out of 4 star hotel rooms. I have taken to finding a fun girl and hosting her for an evening. It allows both sexual fun and meeting fun, interesting ladies.

The first trick is finding the right girl - it is a hunt, and I enjoy it. If the lady you are hosting is simply transactional, it is going to be a LONG NIGHT! She needs to be a GFE, be interesting, and fun. When I am chatting with ladies, I look for certain clues - mainly that she is excited and feels like she is well compensated for her time.

If she doesn’t kiss, warns you that she “isn’t a pin cushion” or generally tries to apply her one hour visit rules to an overnight - she likely isn’t going enjoy herself or be a good match. It is as much a risk for her as it is for you - so make her feel safe and appreciated.

If you have a regular girl - that is the best, but I travel too much and am in way to many cities to generate that kind of arrangement.

The evening: I actually tend to like to meet after dinner, 8 PM is my favorite time. I have tired including dinner and an event - but it just tends to be uncomfortable.

In the room, champaign and orange juice is my go too, unless the lady has requested something specific. I also have snacks and sweets brought to the room for munching. It is best if she is willing to causally enjoy a drink, if not it a sign she is being overly uncomfortable. Sleep generally isn’t on the itinerary, but it happens...

A little blue pill and a vivid imagination helps me keep the evening active - but honestly, I love the late night talks, laughs, and learning so much about another person. Debating politics, life advice, comparing battle scars - people can be amazingly open and candid when they are laying in bed naked and the lights are dimmed.

Notice, I didn’t talk much about activities- there should be frequent trists and you should never feel like you are begging or pushing her into “another round”. But what you do and how you do it is always a collaborative decision...

That’s it... This will not be for everyone! I hope you enjoyed the little missive.

When I pay for 15 mins and done in 7.5 over night might just be a real hour.

I would appear that you and I have a difference of opinion. I don't pay for time, I can get that from numerous girls for free...

I would appear that you and I have a difference of opinion. I don't pay for time, I can get that from numerous girls for free... Originally Posted by Pangolier

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I absolutely love overnights!!!
Ive had several..,☺!
In and out of State��

Most of them included going out to swinger bars, adult book stores,topless bars a few times,Sailing,
Their homes Dinner, Drinks Sex at thdir house..pool fun.
(Dinner where very few.maybe 3%.)

My Overnights where also wild..crazy..alot of partying alcohol..��
Not many conservatives or geeks have ever asked me for overnights mainly party animals.

Over nights out of State are my absolute Favorite!
I truly enjoy those �� with Repeat Clientele.

Everyone's opinion on how an overnight or all day visit (usually 8 hours max) should go, but needless to say, there is going to be much of that time having sex. But a good portion of time is going to be chatting and socializing with one another in private or public, so compatablilty is a definite must. A first time seeing someone should not be for an extended visit, at least a planned one.

Sounds like folks are having fun with overnights. If it is good for you, well then . . .GOOD FOR YOU!

For myself, I am not looking for that much time with a provider. During a hotel stay, I do want the intimate companionship of a provider . . . . I also want alone time. Two or maybe three hours after dinner is plenty enough togetherness for me. As the old saying goes; ,"I pay them to go away."

Again: If you find that overnights work . . .Cheers to you.

I do alot of overnights. Usually between 8-10 hours. Those usually go exactly how described below by buggs.. a couple hours or so of talking or dinner and then lots of action when we return back to the room or my place maybe an hour to asleep with more action to follow.

I have a couple gentleman that I've been doing overnights with for years regularly at least once a month and those usually I don't watch the clock at all and there's lots of shit talking playing eating rehydrating and more fucking usually no sleep.

I offer an extended overnight (12 hours) the last one I did was at the beginning of the month. It was the first time I actually met the gentleman. I enjoyed it immensely it felt like a real date. First we went to dinner return to the hotel room for some playtime. And until it was time for me to go home and next morning that's all we did was playing doze off a little bit wake up play some more.

The only time I've had an overnight and not go well with years ago when I told a guy no and he insisted that it would be okay even though he asked about things that I don't offer. There was no chemistry and even though he said it was okay I didn't offer those Services that's what he asked for it once he arrived.

I tend to get along with everybody and I'm very laid-back and I like to fuck so that usually sets the foundation for a good overnight stay. I tend to be insatiable but I always leave an overnight stay feeling like my thirst has been quenched and I go home and sleep like a baby!

When I see her for a whole 15 mins my hart start to beat that my car will be stolen.

I love the thought of an extended visit with a provider. There are quite a few I'd love to start off with dinner and some time out, before heading back and spending the night together.

I have a couple gentleman that I've been doing overnights with for years regularly at least once a month and those usually I don't watch the clock at all and there's lots of shit talking playing eating rehydrating and more fucking usually no sleep.

I offer an extended overnight (12 hours) the last one I did was at the beginning of the month. It was the first time I actually met the gentleman. I enjoyed it immensely it felt like a real date. First we went to dinner return to the hotel room for some playtime. And until it was time for me to go home and next morning that's all we did was playing doze off a little bit wake up play some more.

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I tend to get along with everybody and I'm very laid-back and I like to fuck so that usually sets the foundation for a good overnight stay. I tend to be insatiable but I always leave an overnight stay feeling like my thirst has been quenched and I go home and sleep like a baby! Originally Posted by Nicole Cox

This is unbelievably hot, Nicole. On my bucket list.

I've don a few overnights and I agree with the OP. You have to do your homework and find the lady who make it worthwhile. The first I did, we went to dinner, back to myy place, had sex, fell asleep, woke up and she left. That was one encounter in 8 hours. On the other end of the specrum, one lady came to my place, said no to dinner, said no to sleep. 4 intimate sessions and extra cost of some drinks in 8 hours.

I love overnights with friends I already know. Dinner, long date, cuddles, long talks, interesting people.

Veronica Turbay

I love overnight/extended visits.
I love staying up late laughing and telling crazy stories. Watching funny movies Is always fun too! Overnights are always best when the connection is right and communication is good. <3

Overnights are not my thing. I have done them, sorry not paying someone $200 hour to chit chat with.