Bodyrub vs escort what are your thoughts.

So yesterday I had my first full experience with what I would consider an escort. And for lack of better terms I would have to say I was sorely disappointed. I am debating on wether or not to do a review because everyone that has reviewed her always has positive things to say. Now maybe it was just me, and my nerves killed the experience and the fact that it was a 30 min session but got me to nut in about 15 min left something to be desired. But I have to say for an overall experience I totally prefer a nice 30-45 min rub / massage finished by either a nice bbbj or cfs. With the escort it was hi, money, bj, cover and wham Bham thank you man. No foreplay perse. Just a start and a finish. Maybe it's me but I totally find the first 30-45 min of the rub very exciting and erotic, especially when it is someone that you are not completely familiar with and still "feeling" her out and what the limits are. There was kinda of a let down knowing exactly what was on the table when I got there. Anybody have any thoughts on this?

I personally have never gotten why someone would pay that kind of money for a rub & tug . I think if you're going to pay to get that close , why not go all the way ! But it's your money do what you like best . I will tell you though , your nervousness should subside after you have a few appointments under your belt .

I feel if you are compensating a provider for their time, then you should get your monies worth. If you pay for 30 then you only take 15 but still good to go then you should be able to do so. Provided you compensate for extra supply's

What kind of money? 120-140? For all intensive purposes a good lmt will charge 80-100 for an hour and then if you tip your right back at that price range yet with no happy ending. And was not just talking bout a tug but the few out there that provide a nice slow Bbbjcim or Russian or even a couple of the rub girls they will give cfs.

So yesterday I had my first full experience with what I would consider an escort. And for lack of better terms I would have to say I was sorely disappointed. I am debating on wether or not to do a review because everyone that has reviewed her always has positive things to say. Now maybe it was just me, and my nerves killed the experience and the fact that it was a 30 min session but got me to nut in about 15 min left something to be desired. But I have to say for an overall experience I totally prefer a nice 30-45 min rub / massage finished by either a nice bbbj or cfs. With the escort it was hi, money, bj, cover and wham Bham thank you man. No foreplay perse. Just a start and a finish. Maybe it's me but I totally find the first 30-45 min of the rub very exciting and erotic, especially when it is someone that you are not completely familiar with and still "feeling" her out and what the limits are. There was kinda of a let down knowing exactly what was on the table when I got there. Anybody have any thoughts on this? Originally Posted by 20040710

The two experiences are definitely different but if what you say about the escort is true it sounds like you went with the wrong one. Maybe you should try out another one....and write the review of the wham bam special gal.

Did you verbalize what you wanted? I always do this so the provider knows what I like/expect.

I thought so, I guess I just got to excited n popped to quick. Idk. I really don't want to review due to the reviews she had are positive and situation most likely my experience and nerves. I guess for me it's just hard to jump in and have someone start sucking your dick with nothing leading up to it.

I would suggest getting a 1 hr GFE appointment with a provider . You will spend 10-15 min talking getting to know a little about one another . Then you will do a little forplay , before moving on to the main event . This will allow you to be more comfortable with the situation . I'm not gonna lie , it might take a couple appts to actually become comfortable with the situation . I was kind of shy and saw same providers a couple times to get use to them .

I have enjoyed both escorts and massages. Sometimes I just really want a massage and the happy ending is just icing on the cake (so to speak). But I must say, the best escort experience v. the best massage experience doesn't even compare.....the escort experience is MUCH better than the massage. However, a good massage can just as easily beat a crappy escort session (for whatever reason...not just a bad provider).

The experiences are different, and your expectations should be, too.

There are times when I'm in the mood for a GFE experience, and there are times when I'd rather lie back and let a talented woman work her magic.

And for either kind of session, the hobbyist's attitude and chemistry with the provider can have a profound impact on how the session goes. The right approach can work wonders.

I would suggest getting a 1 hr GFE appointment with a provider . You will spend 10-15 min talking getting to know a little about one another . Then you will do a little forplay , before moving on to the main event . This will allow you to be more comfortable with the situation . I'm not gonna lie , it might take a couple appts to actually become comfortable with the situation . I was kind of shy and saw same providers a couple times to get use to them . Originally Posted by The Rover

Rover, that is good advice,,,, but read a review that I posted.... Roll of the dice, and I did my homework......

Did not work out.... but hung in there till the end.....

That is just what this "hobby" is all about: variety. I usually like the full hour GFE, but sometimes a FBSM with a happy ending is fun, too.

Escorts have hands too ! lol

Sometimes I like to start out with a massage to break the ice, actually, when I first started out, I'd always start out with massages. Is it out the norm for an escort to give massages too?

Rover, that is good advice,,,, but read a review that I posted.... Roll of the dice, and I did my homework......

Did not work out.... but hung in there till the end..... Originally Posted by lookn4boobies

You are correct it is a roll of the dice , and it sucks your first wasn't a good one . I have done about 50 and only had 4 subpar experiences . If you feel like trying again , keep that in mind , you might hit the one who's the best time ever next .
And maybe you will find its not for you .

I would suggest getting a 1 hr GFE appointment with a provider. Originally Posted by The Rover

I agree with the above. Choose a provider listing GFE and tell her you want GFE when setting the appointment.

You had cfs non-gfe - different experience. A lot of providers here willl not offer it to a new client even.


We can tell you what we like best, but you really need to get out there yourself and find out.