Attitudes count in the hobby, as well as real life. I have met hundreds of women over my life that were drop dead gorgeous, but their attitudes ruined any hint that I might want to see, fantasize, or boinck. The ladies with good, positive attitudes rock.
There are ladies even on icky that are just plain, old fashioned beautiful. So pretty that even non bi women have stated that they would like some of that ... However, their attitudes toward other women, aka their competition, or others of either gender show a very ugly and non pleasant person. So much so even one as tainted as I could not bring myself to grudge/spite fuck them, even if someone else was footing the bill.
While my attitude is a bit tainted, the ladies that I see have great attitudes. Despite their laughter when I undress and they see my 1.3" of dangling death for the first, or tenth, time their wonderful attitudes make me want to see them again, and again. Some of these ladies are out of my preferred demographic but their attitudes conquer any hesitation I may to make the plunge and see them.
So let's smile and have good attitudes. Good attitudes will make people to want to see you, either fucktard or lady.