What stops you from seeing a provider

Passion2015's Avatar
For me it’s when they advertise limits such as No DATY, No DFK, No GFE, everything covered and still want ridiculously high donations.
pmdelites's Avatar
incomplete information or unwillingness to provide information (location, fees, activities)
poor communication during initial inquiry, appt setting, getting to location.



low-rent and/or trashy location (outside and inside)


actual appearance widely different from posted images.


fees above what i'm willing to pay


crappy or negative attitude toward client or clients in general or family/friends, etc


shall i go on?
dodger's Avatar
All of this …/\ …. Be genuine … be fun … connect … or put on a convincing act
Precious_b's Avatar
I think this is a better angle than giving all the things a person looks for that makes them want to pull the trigger.

Myself, if they come across on the board as being difficult (but i've seen those that others have called bitchy and have had a good time.) CBJ. No cim.
For me it’s not knowing the general location or price.

I also try to minimize the details in a text so it’s very important that I don’t need to ask for some details such as price by text.

I’m usually looking for FBSM+ and not L3, so I am okay with many things listed as off the menu. I’m also great with CBJ and prefer providers who limit L2 to that.

I’ll also echo that when the pics are totally outdated that’s also an issue.
Fat lazy unhealthy slob.
Price or Distance.
RALPHEY BOY's Avatar
What stops me now is simply overall value and the amount of screening they want. Unless I am looking for a specific fetish or kink. I am strictly Sugar Babies the past two years. I have seen 3 Providers since fall of 2019 and 8 SBs.

I tried to see a provider for my bday back in March. She wanted way too much for a outcall to my house. Like what girls used to charge for a day rate just a few years ago. Then I was horny for a greek kink. I inquired with a so called 'greek freak' about anal gaping. She did not know what that was. Or played dumb? I do no know how you can be a greek freak and not know what a gape is nowadays? It is in almost every anal scene in porn. I sent her a vid link, never heard back. So there you go. Even when I try, I cannot find what I want.
Masturbation. Plan on seeing a girl, rub one out while showering to pre-game, post nut clarity sets in and I think "man, id rather keep my $260"

LOL
Price
Prices first and no place to really see reviews, BCD.. Eccie is the better place. You don’t have to wait to be approved. Also, Mediocre providers. Oh and if they include something like goddess, I always think of some curvy, white lady who can t get a tan, wearing long wardrobe to try and be sexy but covers blemishes. Basically like Ursula the sea witch!
ahab11's Avatar
#1 pet peeve is a girl who keeps me waiting in the parking lot or just NCNS.

Been ghosted too many times so now I search reviews and anyone with a history of bad TCB I avoid.

I would rather visit an Old MILF who is reliable than a 21 yo spinner who may not keep the appointment if having a bad hair day.