submission? ??

Hey I have a client who subs for me but I am not much of a dom....he wants me to come up with some ideas to do to him ...so far he has no limits. ..i would like some input on Ideas if anyone has any....thanks...
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Role-play... he is the naughty_____ you are the person to correct his behavior. Plenty of spanking books and websites/blogs to read and research.

sensual touch play....brushes/feathers/ice/heat/fingernails/oily rubdown,etcc


have fun!

Tease and Denial are one of my favs. Make him paint your toes and beg beg beg...

get him to buy a chastity device and make him wear it, and a butt plug and a pair of panties under his clothes and then take you out for drinks or shopping

I think you need to figure out what exactly he likes and why. Getting into his head is the first step. For example, some submissives that like humiliation don't necessarily like masochism. Others like feeling helpless, or used, or want to be of service... There's age play, sissyification, bondage, cages, verbal abuse, messyness, CBT, humiliation, degradation... And more specifically there's queening, pet play, enemas, forced sexual use, pegging, diapers, electric play, needles, spanking, paddles, pinching, etc... etc...

But most submissives will have a certain theme to the activities that they enjoy... if they are into bondage, caging, helplessness and verbal abuse they might still hate queening...

So find out in general what his fantasies are, and, if possible, WHY he likes them (was he verbally abused as a child? Does he like to suffer pain to prove that he is worthy? is he overworked and stressed and wants to give up control to someone else once in a while?)

There are a lot of possibilities, but you probably have to try to figure out what general area that his interests are in before you can make a list of what he might like.

Of course there is some overlap between various interests and some people have more areas of interest than others. So more than one theme of activities might appeal to him. And if he gets his pleasure from pleasing you, then you are free to do to him whatever you want as long as you assure him that your enjoying what he's doing.

^^^^^ That...

get him to buy a chastity device and make him wear it, and a butt plug and a pair of panties under his clothes and then take you out for drinks or shopping Originally Posted by Naughtyandbad

HOT DAMN---YEAAAAAAA

I agree totally with oldrichwhiteguy. The sub needs to tell you his fantasies. Just doing any old thing is not usually effective. While turning him on, talk to him about what roleplays he fantasizes about particularly when he masturbates. If he wants to be a sub, he has to have sub fantasies or he is just plain dull. I personally have lots of sub fantasies as well as lots of dom fantasies and can talk about them at length with a provider. I am sure all the guys on here are the same.

I agree totally with oldrichwhiteguy. The sub needs to tell you his fantasies. Just doing any old thing is not usually effective. While turning him on, talk to him about what roleplays he fantasizes about particularly when he masturbates. If he wants to be a sub, he has to have sub fantasies or he is just plain dull. I personally have lots of sub fantasies as well as lots of dom fantasies and can talk about them at length with a provider. I am sure all the guys on here are the same. Originally Posted by whitechocolate

whitechocolate:
Sorry but we are not all the same on this site... just do some simple reading and you will see varied opinions and folks wanting different types of play with different types of providers... just sayin'

Oh girl!! You have a prized pet No Limits!
This is when you can let your imagination run free,, it is so much fun!

I would definitely use restraints,,, you can find plenty on //http://www.extremerestraints.com/home.html

as well as so many other fun toys,

Every sub has the need to be lead.. Get him a leash.
Let him know it is his and he belongs to you during that time period.
Give him specific instructions to follow prior to apt.
I would also invest in anal toys.. and a strap on.
Whips, Feathers, Food play, Make him paint your toes, all kinds of things you can do without inflecting too much pain.. till you both reach a comfort level.
I like to play games,,,
I have Ring Toss..lol ( humiliation)
one piece goes in his behind while I toss rings on there,, he has to hold them still while I tickle him or use electro..lol so much fun!

Nothing I do fits my everyday persona,, I am actually quite pleasant and sweet,,
But when I get to become Mistress Star,, It is game on! lol,

Have fun with it most of all.. if you do not have toys
you can always improvise. Be in control and read his body language to know
which areas he seems to really get into and go from there, Be creative!

One word: Blindfold

It is always a great start. So many directions to go.

If you're not a natural Domme, then just piss on him. That's a "day off" in Dom world. ;-)

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Give him specific instructions to follow prior to apt.
Be creative! Originally Posted by melannie_star

Now that could be fun.

Now that could be fun. Originally Posted by dleehou

Yes.. always a lot of fun..Hope to see you dleehou in Houston next month.
I would love to instruct you